What do I do?!?

[evilrobots]

This isn't a 'comparing worse life topic'- this topic is about her. She was stating her case and why she wants some help. It's not like she's complaing about her life, she's asking for help.

You are a beautiful person evilrobots! Don't keep shoving yourself down by saying otherwise. Stop lieing to yourself; "Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting", people that call you ugly don't have true beauty and are just insucure of their own apperence.

B.T.W. They weren't 'judging' you. Judging you would be like saying 'z0Mg!!111111111! 3mOOooooOo!' which they didn't. They were merly advising that you get some help.

i did tell her help

ha you dont know what i look like >:[

and i think that they were judging me

and i told her that stuf about me so she can learn to stick up for herslf and not feel as bad

i sorry if you couldnt realy under stand what i was trying to explain earlier...i live in harpers ferry west virgnia and we dont realy explain things up here (not that were dumb its that we think other people can figure stuff out

 

[Lily12]

ha you dont know what i look like >:[

She means inside.

 

Here's a tip of advice for people who are having some trouble in there life: Take a break. Do something you want to do. If you feel trapped you need to get outside take a walk because it will help you. Also be positive never be negative. ^^

 

[evilrobots]

She means inside.  

Here's a tip of advice for people who are having some trouble in there life: Take a break. Do something you want to do. If you feel trapped you need to get outside take a walk because it will help you. Also be positive never be negative. ^^

ya know......i dont think it matters on the outside anymore i cant change what people think.....in my neibor hood im just that kid who sits by a tree while everyone plays,at home im just the brother who never comes out of his room,and at school im just that kid who nobody likes because im not very social and i heard a group of girls call me a looner or some times that little emo boy.........its to late to change my life.

 

[temari_sensei_girl]

ya know......i dont think it matters on the outside anymore i cant change what people think.....in my neibor hood im just that kid who sits by a tree while everyone plays,at home im just the brother who never comes out of his room,and at school im just that kid who nobody likes because im not very social and i heard a group of girls call me a looner or some times that little emo boy.........its to late to change my life.

No it's not! It's never too late to change you're life! And this is coming from me!

I used to know someone that was full blown emo and smoked and everything. I went out and became her friend and now she's trying not to curse. (she's doing a good job by the way)

Her smoking is going less. She failed the 7th grade recently, but I'm going to tuter her next year.

You should never give up!

I know what it's like to be left out. I know what it's like to be called ugly. Don't take things out on yourself.

I mean, if nobody else loves you.. then God loves you! He loves me and you and everyone. He even loves the murder people and the theves and the people who start wars. He loves everyone and is willing to give everyone a chance in life.

He gave me a chance. Why wouldn't he give you one?

He's ready to take anyone into his family... Even you.

Trying praying and asking him for help. If you just believe then surely a miricle will come. It came for me... Why wouldn't it come for you?

 

[temari_sensei_girl]

Ok, I'll try to make this as short as possible. Sometime God needs to break us in order to get us back to come back to Him.

Tell Him everything- if you see some beautiful creation tell Him. Likewise, if you are mad at Him tell Him. He wants you to talk to Him. Pray without ceasing. You can talk to Him like He's your best friend- because He is. Talk to Him all throught the day, not just when you are about to take a test you didn't study for. ;]

Have a quiet time in the mornings. Pray for God to speak to you and to give you an understanding heart. Get you Bible and read a passage or two in Psalms. While reading ask questions like why, and/or how.

Tell Him you will live for Him today.

Luke 9:23 Then he said to them all: "If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.

Yes, it's hard but you just have to trust in Him in all things.

by the way, thanks. What you've said really made me feel special. I'm glad there are people like you in the world.

When you said that it was okay to talk to God like he was your friend it really said something to me. I thought I was wierd because when I pray to myself, I would try as hard as I could to try to pray like everyone else, because I would talk to him as if he was another person and I thought that they would think that I was weird and disrespectfull. My dad had already got on to my little sister for talking to him that way and I was scared.

I'm still too scared to tell my father. I want to tell him everything, but my father acts like he knows everything. He is a preacher and has been doing a study ever since before I was born and now he thinks he knows everything about how the bible is. He is always telling me what I should and shouldn't do as if I had to follow everyone perfectly. And it is IMPOSSIBLE to win an argument with my father. I haven't met anyone yet that could trick my father or tell him something that he doesn't know.

For ex. I was trying to tell him that the way he was picking out the mangoes was wrong, because you are supposed to pick them firm like apples, but he thought they were supposed to be soft. He told me that if I wanted to show him than I would have to go and buy my own mango that was firm and eat it in front of him. Not only would that be imbarassing, but I would have to spend my money that I have been trying hard not to spend too much of.

Yeah, I need some advise on how I'm suppossed to talk to him, because it's IMPOSSIBLE! I've tried to ask god to help me understand what he is trying to tell me, but I still haven't got any ideas or anything... It's hard.

 

[tamakitty710]

I don't know anything about religion, so I'll try helping you otherwise.

I guess you could pray, but I don't pray, and I don't believe in God, so... :/ But go ahead and pray if you need to!

My life is kind of bad, too. I've been having thoughts about suicide, so I'll try helping you with what I've been helping myself with.

My dad moved to California recently, and I've missed him a lot (my parents are divorced). I just think about the family I have here in Illinois, my sisters, my mom, my stepdad, and how things would be without me. I can picture my sister asking my mom where I am. She's only 3 so she wouldn't understand until she was older, plus she already has other problems (she doesn't know her biological father, but the rest of the family does. It's gonna be hard to say "Daddy isn't really your daddy, this man is" or something.) to deal with when she's older. I try to think of all the people that I can connect with. I have other mental issues as well, which I actually have a funny story about::

The school year before last school year I went to a gifted school. We were having problems with it so I went to a part Catholic school that took non-Catholic students as well. I had a LOT of problems there. No one accepted me for who I was, they just cared about my religion (which I don't have). It was really hard. I told a lot of people that I went to a therapist and they were kind of shocked. I visited my old school (the gifted school) and the teacher said something about lying down in a therapist couch. One girl said "I don't know what that feels like!" and everyone just turned and looked at her and said "Really?!" It was like the total opposite of what happened to me xD Everyone went "Really?!" about GOING to a therapist, not NOT going to a therapist.

Being gifted can be really hard. No one understood why I was having problems with the work at the part-Catholic school. A lot of kids made fun of me (I don't really know why or how you can make fun of someone for being smart, but they did, and it really hurt).

Just think how things would be without you. There was some movie about that. I saw part of it. It was pretty interesting. This man lost a fortune and things were falling apart for him. He committed suicide (I think) and an angel showed him how things were without him. Then he's alive again and all happy. I'm not saying that that will happen, but at least think about all the good things in life. It will make you a little happier.

I started drawing and playing video games. TamaTalk has also helped a lot.

So, thank you everyone here!

I hope you feel better! If you ever need any help or support, I'm only a PM away :3

♪~tk710

 

[**UrItChI**]

First of, I'm so sorry that you feel this way about your life. :furawatchi:

Getting your mind off this will really help you.

Try something new, like a summer Drama camp or sport.

Knowing the qualities of Friendship will get you far.

Loyalty, honesty, and trust ar very important if you want to make new friends in the future.

And a summer activitie is great to start to get to know some nice people.

And I want you to look in the mirror and feel confident with yourself.

It may be hard, but everyone is beautiful and unique in their own special ways.

And even the most beautiful models have their insecurities. Don't feel alone on something like that.

Everything may seem really bad right now, but looking on the bright side of things will always help.

And letting your Mom know about how sad you are feeling will possibly lead to some helpful therapy in the near future. Consider this: Talking to someone about your feelings is good for your well-being.

Think about all of the good things in life, like living in a free country and being under a roof at night.

You are truly a lucky and gifted person.

But for yourself, you may have to keep on digging deeper to find it.

I wish you the best for your future.

Rachel AKA **UrItChI**

 

[**UrItChI**]

Dont judge me

She's not judging you.

She's just trying to help.

 

[TamaT]

You have to be strong in yourself, and do the things that will help you get over what youre going through none of its easy, i know, but do something you really like to do do get your mind off it. Learn Japanese if thats what you really want to do, its your life. I am not Christian but you must remember to stay close to God through all of it. He loves you, just as he loves others, and he is going to help you get through this. Everyone may find themselves at a stage where the can break down at any time, God is helping you to understand what life is about, perhaps, he is making these things happen and now you must believe that you can make it through. There will always be a tough stage in your life, but God will stop once he knows that you are strong enough to tackle any problems that may not be given to you by him. I felt as if i was going to break down today, but sitting there in my chair and blocking my thoughts out helped me calm down. Stay in contact and talk to God as if you knew him sice the day you were born, treat him as your friend and he will understand what you are going through, it is a test of faith, just like, when Jesus went out into the Wilderness, he sat and thought about himself and what he was to do, you must do the same, dream ahead, set goals for yourself, so that you have something to work towards, if your friend has email or she knows his/her new address, find it out to stay in touch, talk to your friends about what youre going through, and just walk away from those who are horrible to you. Be Strong, Believe in God and most of all, Believe in youself

i hope this helps you a bit more

and just PM me if you want to talk about this a bit more

 

[TamaT]

remember that whenever you may feel that suicide is the only thing left, think of God, and that he created you for a purpose, and he loves you, no matter what and that he wants you to live for today, tomorrow and the next day and so on

tell him that you understand that and he will see that you are getting more confident in yourself

 

[crazy critter]

Well, I sorta went through that last year. I had nearly the whole popular group in my class and my (supposed to be) friends just proved fake, the whole 2 years. The "in" people just........(sorry), but they "bi***-Slap you, big time! Every break, i had stay on TamaTalk on the computer in the library! Now, i'm in grade 7 and my life is back! With friends, with a cool teacher (bless you, Mrs A- . (Ms Aqualina from last year didn't care about no no one!) Oh, i wish you could meet Mrs A-B, she'll patch up your life in 2 secs (true story. she is... soooo cool!) Even your dad. Glad to hear, you wanna expand your horizons and wanna learn a foreign language! PM me, if you wanna friend. Always will be there, one way or another!

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[Anthrax]

It sounds like you're a teenager. Yes, you have had some rough times that have made you feel worse than the average teenager, but this is a common thing that everyone goes through at that age. It will get better, I promise you.

 

[crazy critter]

Who, me? Sorry, but are you, Anthrax, talking about me? I'm only 12!

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[Anthrax]

I'm talking about the starter of this topic.

 

[crazy critter]

Oh. Very sorry to ask, only stupid of me. Just forget that i asked. By the way, temari_sensei_girl, when the holidays are over, i'm gonna ask Mrs A-B about it so she can give you some suggestions. I'll post back what she said, ok? Hope you don't mind my teacher to get involved to help you. She won't mind a bit.

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[Tamasluvfritos99]

Maybe you could start talking to someone a little, about this.

And tell someone, about the problems.

Or talk to your mom about the whole thing.

and your dad can't joke around every time.

But if your dad still jokes around, say it in a very serious voice.

And, say your not kidding or" it's not funny."

Maybe you could see a theripist, if it's extremely bad.

You know, maybe your will light up, with a it more patience.

Maybe you could still be intouch with your old friends, by texting, and calling.

You could probably be friends with someone on TT.

Sorry, I don't have great advice.

I've never moved from friends, or family.

Hope I helped!

\\T.luvfritos99//

 

[Brambleclaw]

You poor thing!

Cheer up, hun! I am sure everything will be alright!

 

[tama_star4lyfe]

Heyy...Umm...i hav never been in a situation like that and neither has any1 i kno...so, i found this syte, it might help u, so make sure u check it out...

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[Hoshiz]

Okay.

Try not to blow things to out of proportion. And as far as your 'crackhead' friends go, if they get in trouble and youre around, youre guilty by association, so I reccomend finding some new friends, because chances are the ones you have arent your real friends anyways.

And as far as religion goes.

Im not athiest of satanist; I just dont have a religion.

Im not into religion, im not getting into heated debates on it or anything.

I remember a Marilyn Manson speech, about 'the god band aid'; turning to god when you do something wrong or something isnt right. Personally I dont believe in doing that, if you did something wrong or you feel like youre going the wrong way, its your fault, not gods.

But then again, I dont have a religion. Maybe yours tells you to do so. But whatever.

 

[crazy critter]

Mrs A-B said that u should speak to a person, face to face. For now, thats what she said, she also said she would think about it.

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