How do I ask him?

[Nix666]

I like this boy, he likes me. I want to ask him out. How? Ialso want to hug him and kiss him on the cheek if he says yes, so please give me advice.

 

[TamaMum]

*Topic moved to '(Non)TamaTalk'*

Please keep replies sensible.

If you like him and he likes you, then it should be less embaressing to go up to him and say something like "Hi, would you like to go out?"

I do suggest that you leave the hug and kiss on the cheek for later - if he's shy you might embaress him ^_^

 

[tamaw/pants]

Ok, well because you have obviously already made up your mind I won't take the time to tell the reasons of why not to ask him.

•Don't get your friends to ask him for you. That's just pathetic and shows you really don't care too much. If you are serious about this you'll just go up there and ask him- perferably when not many people are around whether you know them or not.

•Don't keep it a secret. Who knows, you may need help sometime from a friend/family member and if nobody's involved and knows what's going on it'll make it all the more painful.

•Ask your parents first- if they say no respect their opinion. They're here to protect you and trust me they know how it's like. They've been where you are whether you admit it or not.

•I wouldn't suggest kissing him- whether it be just a peck on the cheek- because you two will all ways want 'more'. Starting out a relatioship with already a kiss isn't good and bound to crash and burn.

•[This is good if you are thinking of dating now or not.] Set boundaries for yourself. Make up in your mind now that you won't kiss him till your *insert age/grade/circumstance/w.e here* so you won't be caught up in all the activity and forget who you are, what you are doing and how this will affect you, him and others.

I advise you to wait and create a strong foundation- but not a dating relationship, just as friends. If he says no now, you may be makeing a huge mistake in that you killed your relatioship. But if you wait and just become great friends you have a strong foundation and are both more mature then dating may be an option. Maybe you'll realize that you really don't like him like that and this is just a crush. ;]

As SK has said, if you parents have to drive you to a date you don't need to be dating.

 

[babyblue123456]

nix i pmed you

 

[yoshi999]

Well there r some goods n bads about asking him out.

if you ask him out he might say yes n other people will be following u everywhere u go.

but if they do that ,other people r going 2 bully them when they date or there just jealous.

Chuy

 

[Gymcutie95]

Well i think that your parents dont have to know what your going to do, i've had tons of boyfriends, and im not allowed to and my parents have never found out so if you dont want to talk to them about it, and it doesnt matter how old you are I'm 12 and i go out with lots of guys. but like you can get your friend to ask him out for you because thats what i do all the time, or i ask them out online, it feels really awkward to ask them out in person, and if you want to hug him have him walk you to your bus and then you guys can hug and kiss, thats what i do =]

 

[Nix666]

I would do the bus thing, but my mum comes on the bus.

Me & Him(Can't say names) are best of friends, we play together, sit together at lunch time and all that.

Everyone knows about Me & Him liking each other.

My friends tell me to ask him out.

The class is doing salsa dancing on Monday.