tamatalker101
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^^ SweetKandi is right abortion was the right thing to do. Many groups are against that but they are also against young mothers. Don't be so hard on yourself, It IS Okay.
TT101
TT101
I am one of those against it, but I won't hate on you- that's not very nice.^^ SweetKandi is right abortion was the right thing to do. Many groups are against that but they are also against young mothers. Don't be so hard on yourself, It IS Okay.
TT101
I think it's wrong to be again young mothers. I think about 4 of my friends are young mothers. My 19 year old friend is on her second child [which is due soon] and she provides well for her child, and I would never call her a bad mother. OR bad mouth her for having a child so young.Many groups are against that but they are also against young mothers. Don't be so hard on yourself, It IS Okay.
Like, if it suddenly happens when you can't tell your mom or another woman?Question???
If you get your period how do you tell your friends and Dad???
TT101(Ps I don't have my period)
thx sweet kandi i didn't want to go through wit it at first but i did i even had a name picked out ( Jordan) cuz i new it would be a gurl( doc told me) but then i asked my bf if he would be commited n he sed no i will just give u money n dat really hurt me so i didn't bring a baby in2 a unhappy family ( my dad waz really pi**ed i am telling u now)I don't see how you deserve to be bad mouthed for having an abortion.. Nobody does. Especially if you were 14. That's way too young to even think about birthing, keeping and caring for a child. It's also really stressful and dangerous on an undeveloped body to go through a birth. In my eyes, abortion was the best decision.
If your being honest and you were in the early stages of pregnancy - you wouldn't know the gender. 3 Of my friends are 3-5 months pregnant and none of them know the gender yet. [As it's too early to tell]thx sweet kandi i didn't want to go through wit it at first but i did i even had a name picked out ( Jordan) cuz i new it would be a gurl( doc told me) but then i asked my bf if he would be commited n he sed no i will just give u money n dat really hurt me so i didn't bring a baby in2 a unhappy family ( my dad waz really pi**ed i am telling u now)
You can read stage 3 to see some of the changes that occur to drop a hint of when periods begin at this site -Is there any more signs whatsoever that your going to get your first period besides discharge?
Age Range: Usually 9-15. Average: 12-13 Breast growth continues, and pubic hair coarsens and becomes darker, but there still isn't a lot of it. Your body is still growing, and your vagina is enlarging and may begin to produce a clear or whitish discharge, which is a normal self-cleansing process. Some girls get their first menstrual periods late in this stage.
Very true.Like, if it suddenly happens when you can't tell your mom or another woman?Well, just tell your [gril] friends straight out- they might actualy have their period too and could help 'ya out. ;]
If you have too, just tell your dad. I'm sure he's mature enough to handle his daughter have her period.
I agree. Although the 'baby' did die, imagine what kind of life the child would have had. I mean no offence by that but even if you tried your best as a Mum, there would still be a financial struggle and the Dad may not stay around.I don't see how you deserve to be bad mouthed for having an abortion.. Nobody does. Especially if you were 14. That's way too young to even think about birthing, keeping and caring for a child. It's also really stressful and dangerous on an undeveloped body to go through a birth. In my eyes, abortion was the best decision.
Thxs, My friend looking for a DS Game, Then she had to go to the restroom and I told her I would look for her. She threw me her purse then left. I was going through it then I saw a pad. should I tell her I know or keep it a secret?Like, if it suddenly happens when you can't tell your mom or another woman?Well, just tell your [gril] friends straight out- they might actualy have their period too and could help 'ya out. ;]
If you have too, just tell your dad. I'm sure he's mature enough to handle his daughter have her period.
That happened to me too. Ask the school nurse or a teacher if you can use a pad they might have. It's perfectly normal, and they might remember how it felt their first time, and they'd be glad to help. Or if you feel too embarrassed, keep pads or tampons in your backpack for next time.I got my period at school by surprise! So embarrassing!! x.x And I had no pads or tampons with me.... o.o'
~Sakura
But I'm in Elementary School.....(I'm a 4th grader) Do you think the school nurse would have tampons &pads in Elementary school?That happened to me too. Ask the school nurse or a teacher if you can use a pad they might have. It's perfectly normal, and they might remember how it felt their first time, and they'd be glad to help. Or if you feel too embarrassed, keep pads or tampons in your backpack for next time.
I read into that last night actually.If your being honest and you were in the early stages of pregnancy - you wouldn't know the gender. 3 Of my friends are 3-5 months pregnant and none of them know the gender yet. [As it's too early to tell]
Really it's no biggie.Thxs, My friend looking for a DS Game, Then she had to go to the restroom and I told her I would look for her. She threw me her purse then left. I was going through it then I saw a pad. should I tell her I know or keep it a secret?
I'm not sure. But if the school nurse doesn't, ask a teacher (female of course) if you can borrow a pad. If you can't do that, the best thing to do is puta wad of toilet paper into your underwear until you get home.But I'm in Elementary School.....(I'm a 4th grader) Do you think the school nurse would have tampons &pads in Elementary school?
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