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^^ SweetKandi is right abortion was the right thing to do. Many groups are against that but they are also against young mothers. Don't be so hard on yourself, It IS Okay.

TT101

 
^^ SweetKandi is right abortion was the right thing to do. Many groups are against that but they are also against young mothers. Don't be so hard on yourself, It IS Okay.

TT101
I am one of those against it, but I won't hate on you- that's not very nice.

Sure, I don't think it's right, but you can't go back and there wouldn't realy be a point to me yelling at you.

Anyways, I thought you said you were thirteen on another thread? o.0;;;

 
Many groups are against that but they are also against young mothers. Don't be so hard on yourself, It IS Okay.
I think it's wrong to be again young mothers. I think about 4 of my friends are young mothers. My 19 year old friend is on her second child [which is due soon] and she provides well for her child, and I would never call her a bad mother. OR bad mouth her for having a child so young.

 
Question???

If you get your period how do you tell your friends and Dad???

TT101(Ps I don't have my period)
Like, if it suddenly happens when you can't tell your mom or another woman?

Well, just tell your [gril] friends straight out- they might actualy have their period too and could help 'ya out. ;]

If you have too, just tell your dad. I'm sure he's mature enough to handle his daughter have her period.

 
I don't see how you deserve to be bad mouthed for having an abortion.. Nobody does. Especially if you were 14. That's way too young to even think about birthing, keeping and caring for a child. It's also really stressful and dangerous on an undeveloped body to go through a birth. In my eyes, abortion was the best decision.
thx sweet kandi i didn't want to go through wit it at first but i did i even had a name picked out ( Jordan) cuz i new it would be a gurl( doc told me) but then i asked my bf if he would be commited n he sed no i will just give u money n dat really hurt me so i didn't bring a baby in2 a unhappy family ( my dad waz really pi**ed i am telling u now)

 
thx sweet kandi i didn't want to go through wit it at first but i did i even had a name picked out ( Jordan) cuz i new it would be a gurl( doc told me) but then i asked my bf if he would be commited n he sed no i will just give u money n dat really hurt me so i didn't bring a baby in2 a unhappy family ( my dad waz really pi**ed i am telling u now)
If your being honest and you were in the early stages of pregnancy - you wouldn't know the gender. 3 Of my friends are 3-5 months pregnant and none of them know the gender yet. [As it's too early to tell]

 
Is there any more signs whatsoever that your going to get your first period besides discharge?
You can read stage 3 to see some of the changes that occur to drop a hint of when periods begin at this site -

https://www.puberty101.com/p_pubgirls.shtml

Or if you're too lazy, I'll quote stage 3.

Age Range: Usually 9-15. Average: 12-13 Breast growth continues, and pubic hair coarsens and becomes darker, but there still isn't a lot of it. Your body is still growing, and your vagina is enlarging and may begin to produce a clear or whitish discharge, which is a normal self-cleansing process. Some girls get their first menstrual periods late in this stage.
 
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Like, if it suddenly happens when you can't tell your mom or another woman?Well, just tell your [gril] friends straight out- they might actualy have their period too and could help 'ya out. ;]

If you have too, just tell your dad. I'm sure he's mature enough to handle his daughter have her period.
Very true.

I was visiting my Dad and Step-Mum for a week when I got my first period. Very bad timing. It was embarrassing but he was very good about it. I was 14 and a half.

 
I don't see how you deserve to be bad mouthed for having an abortion.. Nobody does. Especially if you were 14. That's way too young to even think about birthing, keeping and caring for a child. It's also really stressful and dangerous on an undeveloped body to go through a birth. In my eyes, abortion was the best decision.
I agree. Although the 'baby' did die, imagine what kind of life the child would have had. I mean no offence by that but even if you tried your best as a Mum, there would still be a financial struggle and the Dad may not stay around.

I think Gilmore Girls has given alot of people false hope....

 
Like, if it suddenly happens when you can't tell your mom or another woman?Well, just tell your [gril] friends straight out- they might actualy have their period too and could help 'ya out. ;]

If you have too, just tell your dad. I'm sure he's mature enough to handle his daughter have her period.
Thxs, My friend looking for a DS Game, Then she had to go to the restroom and I told her I would look for her. She threw me her purse then left. I was going through it then I saw a pad. should I tell her I know or keep it a secret?

 
I got my period at school by surprise! So embarrassing!! x.x And I had no pads or tampons with me.... o.o'
~Sakura
That happened to me too. Ask the school nurse or a teacher if you can use a pad they might have. It's perfectly normal, and they might remember how it felt their first time, and they'd be glad to help. Or if you feel too embarrassed, keep pads or tampons in your backpack for next time.

 
That happened to me too. Ask the school nurse or a teacher if you can use a pad they might have. It's perfectly normal, and they might remember how it felt their first time, and they'd be glad to help. Or if you feel too embarrassed, keep pads or tampons in your backpack for next time.
But I'm in Elementary School.....(I'm a 4th grader) Do you think the school nurse would have tampons &pads in Elementary school?

 
If your being honest and you were in the early stages of pregnancy - you wouldn't know the gender. 3 Of my friends are 3-5 months pregnant and none of them know the gender yet. [As it's too early to tell]
I read into that last night actually.

If they do some sort of test, you can sometimes tell pretty early into the pregnancy. I can't remember how many weeks they said though x.x' I can find the site again if you're curious to read.

 
Thxs, My friend looking for a DS Game, Then she had to go to the restroom and I told her I would look for her. She threw me her purse then left. I was going through it then I saw a pad. should I tell her I know or keep it a secret?
Really it's no biggie.

Now if she's new too all this then I suggest you just keep it quite because she might be embarresed.

But if you ever need to ask someone, or need a tampon/pad, she can be the first on you can ask. ;]

 
But I'm in Elementary School.....(I'm a 4th grader) Do you think the school nurse would have tampons &pads in Elementary school?
I'm not sure. But if the school nurse doesn't, ask a teacher (female of course) if you can borrow a pad. If you can't do that, the best thing to do is puta wad of toilet paper into your underwear until you get home.

 
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