yes, you use the love potion (honey), when you r connecting. the love potion makes your two tamas mate quickly than usually, you get four hearts. it doesnt work for version 1. you have to have two tamas of the opposite gender. when you use it, your tama will stay on the floor with hearts flashing above it, that is the love potion in effect. you should connect when this is happening in both the tamas, before the love potion wears out. you use a love potion foir one of your tama then to the other too and connect.
sincerely,Tamapal3000