Um...

[*Summer*]

OK there's a kid in my class called Michael, he's really nice and really funny. Well, the problem is he hugs me, Only me. Everyone thinks we like each other

Last week he told me he likes me more than women and this week Jade asked him who in the class he would marry if he had no choice and he chose me!

I don't know what to do!

I like him we've been friends since last year and he's funny and nice but why does everyone keep saying "Catlin likes Michael" or the other way around?!?

 

[Locky458]

The truth hurts :furawatchi: , you should just tell him that you don’t like him, and we can only be friends. I’m pretty sure Honesty can save you. Personally I think friendship is better than the whole I like him/boyfriend/girl friend thing.

 

[*Summer*]

Yeah, Thing is I feel under pressure because of everyone hat's saying things.

I really don't think he likes me in that way.

 

[Locky458]

Yeah, Thing is I feel under pressure because of everyone hat's saying things.I really don't think he likes me in that way.

It's like a elephant off your should huh, lumpy!? :furawatchi: -Eddy telling Ed about him playing the violin very badly.

Yeh, I know how you feel .

 

[tamaw/pants]

Yeah, Thing is I feel under pressure because of everyone hat's saying things.I really don't think he likes me in that way.

I feel your pain! :furawatchi:

I think you and the boy need to have a one-to-one chat.

When you get the oppertunity to be away from everyone, tell him you need to get somethings straight and/or set some limits.

If it really doesn't bother you [which obviously it does] then just ignore the comments.

You may not stop getting annoying comments- because that's what people do, annoy eachother- but at least you will have your mind straight and he will too.

 

[baybee-x]

Last week he told me he likes me more than women and this week Jade asked him who in the class he would marry if he had no choice and he chose me!

I'd ignore the taunts the other children might be jelous that a boy likes you. You should carry on being his friend and explain to him that you only want to be friends, as your already good friends i'm sure he'll understand.

 

[Gejitchi]

Well, it sounds like he DOES actually like you that way. The best thing to do is just make it clear you aren't interested in him (unless you are, of course. ;O) before it gets out of hand. Tell HIM, too; not your friends or something. When you do that, it becomes more and more difficult to talk to the person directly, leading to a bad end of the friendship. He may even get over it - kids tend to go from person to person on a whim due to their lack of an attention span/the fact that they're growing up. Be warned, though, that the longer friendships go on where one person likes the other as more than a friend, the more likely it is to meet an awkward end. Get it straightened out with him.

 

[<-Honeysuckle->]

Yes, be honest with him and your friends.

Thats always the best things to do. Its so annyoing when people in your class keep on at you and making up stuipid chants and songs.

This one gets on my nerves!

"___and___sitting up a tree. K-I-S-S-I-N-G!" Ugh. e_e

 

[.::Snowy::.]

Be honest. Tell everyone that you don't like him.

Well, tell him first.

It hurts you that people say that you like him, imagine if he does like you and then a bunch of your friends and whoever else you've told, coming up to him and saying, "Caitlin doesn't like you even though you like her" or "Caitlin doesn't like you!!" before you have told him.

That would hurt bad, it would also be humiliating.

Don't feel that you have to 'like' him just because you don't want to hurt him. It would hurt if you pretended to like him and then further along the track he realises that you have been lying.

And as I said before tell him first, not everyone else.

Also tell him to his face, don't get one of your friends to go up to him and say: "Caitlin told me to tell you that she doesn't like you!"

Tell him in private, not when there is a group of people around. That way there is no-one to laugh at him/you.

Good luck!

 

[TigerLily013]

OK there's a kid in my class called Michael, he's really nice and really funny. Well, the problem is he hugs me, Only me. Everyone thinks we like each otherLast week he told me he likes me more than women and this week Jade asked him who in the class he would marry if he had no choice and he chose me!

I don't know what to do!

I like him we've been friends since last year and he's funny and nice but why does everyone keep saying "Catlin likes Michael" or the other way around?!?

Well it could just be misunderstanding body language with others watching you and your friend. I had the same happen in high school. I had a guy friend named Jason and we'd hang out. There were rumours off and on about us dating because we hung out. Which I still see as silly because last time I checked guys can have female friends and girls can have male guys.

As for him liking you, if you feel you are feeling the same way, its best to talk with him in private about it, and I'm sure he'll be able to respect the fact you guys have a good friendship and it does not matter.