Time to destroy all labels

[Skippy~Tama]

OK. Forget I ever said anything, then... I'll go along with everyone else, because that seems easier...

Labeling only limits us from others. It's unfair. Labels should be fully distinguished, although we all know it's impossible..

 

[tamaw/pants]

I have one things to add- if people label you are certain way and it just bugs you, then change. It's in your power. If you don't want to, just take it, shrug to yourself because they're missing out on a good person. Don't complain about it if you can do something because it's your own fault.

 

[Tamagirl_Desy]

OK. Forget I ever said anything, then... I'll go along with everyone else, because that seems easier...
Labeling only limits us from others. It's unfair. Labels should be fully distinguished, although we all know it's impossible..

No. I won't forget you said anything. You were actually very wise and strong to psot what you did, I actually don't think I was. I apoligize if I hurt you back in anyway.....

 

[Skippy~Tama]

That's OK. I feel much better that we worked this out through PM, TGD.

I really am sorry too. When I said 'you', I didn't mean anyone directly. Everybody probably thought I was talking about TGD, but I wasn't. I was using 'you' as a form of pretty much everybody. Sorry if anyone took it wrong. I didn't mean my words hurtful.

TGD, you were in all rights to shoot back at me if you found my post hurtful to you, as well as anybody else. It's only fair.

We all had very good points. I don't think there's any need for any more arguing.

 

[TamaXTREAM]

I never have anything good to say about rants...
They usually provoke bickering on the forums and are too often used to re-inforce a person's sense of self-importance.

Some ppl like to be part of a group - it feels nice to belong... and if they want to label themselves it's not immature, it's just the way they are....

Some ppl decide that they don't want to be the same as everyone else and look to promote what differentiates them from others, it doesn't make them better than anyone else, it's just the way they are....

However, I wholeheartedly agree with the advice that every member should make an effort to use polite (nicer) words when directing gentle criticism at someone else - and they should follow their own advice too

'Nuff Said I think.

Keeping an eye on this topic.... no flaming or snide remarks please

TamaMum, what you posted makes me feel really good! Because I like to label myself. Today I am "Froggy girl." Yay! And that's alright, I think.