(Harvest Moon thing...er Gray's got blonde hair and a cute hat and Kai is African-American with a cute bandanna if that helps. Chose based on that. =D)
That's exactly how I feel about Gray and Kai. Actually, I took a quiz (to try to decide between the two) and got...Jack. He's a character that you can't ever really marry/date in Harvest Moon. Story of my life. >.>