Sex before Marriage

[tamaMamita]

im waitin till marriage

 

[popprincess83]

Well if I ever have sex,I want to make sure I am both physically and emotionally ready, have been with my boyfriend for a year at the least, and have some sort of birth control at hand. These are my requirements for having sex. However, if you are truly in love with someone I believe you would love them enough to wait.

 

[Rock the world-guy]

I hate sex. Hate it. point blank. It makes me wanna vomit, prolly because I'm 11. But really! It is disguuuuusting! And i'm interested in love, but not in this way!!!

 

[DemonSlayer5050]

I hate sex. Hate it. point blank. It makes me wanna vomit, prolly because I'm 11. But really! It is disguuuuusting! And i'm interested in love, but not in this way!!!

Most likely because you are eleven. Most likely when you get older it will seem less repulsive

 

[cluck_cluck_chicken]

Everyone whos been saying "Ewww. Sex, Never' are oviously quite young. Its a perfectly normal thing. Its where almost everyone came from! Its where I came from.

I probably won't wait till marriage but I will be legal and emotionally ready.

 

[bratztroxg]

Everyone whos been saying "Ewww. Sex, Never' are oviously quite young. Its a perfectly normal thing. Its where almost everyone came from! Its where I came from.
I probably won't wait till marriage but I will be legal and emotionally ready.

I never thought of sex is an 'Ew!!!' way. I believe sex is how a man and wife should bond and become one, and I'm waiting until marriage.

-bratztroxg

 

[Pikachu Lover]

I have no idea yet. Like uma: said earlier, only time will tell. My mum and dad had sex before marriage and my 21 year old brother had sex at like 16 years old! I have no idea yet, and im not planning on having sex before I turn atleast 18 years old (and that will be in..lets see..7 years!)
~illiey12~

My brother had sex at 14 and my mom had sex before marriage. But my dad waited until the weddiong night. Same with my grandma.

 

[Pikachu Lover]

I hate sex. Hate it. point blank. It makes me wanna vomit, prolly because I'm 11. But really! It is disguuuuusting! And i'm interested in love, but not in this way!!!

You'll think differently when you're older. Trust me. I used to think the same way as you. Now I don't. Sex isn't gross. And no I'm not going to go off and say "oh sex is a beautiful thing" because I don't think of it that way. It's how you were made. And it's how you'll make your future kids. Its how every mammel is made. Without it there'd be no life on earth. Not even plants.

 

[qwerty123]

I'll try to wait until marriage. It just seems like I should.. :furawatchi:

 

[mr.chocolate.luv.man]

I'll wait until I get married. It seems like the right thing to do.

Yeah,I agree,I mean...who wants a baby like at the age of thirteen.If you aren't over sixteen then you are practically a baby yourself(I don't mean that in a bad way)

Anyways,it's supposed to be what you do when you are married,not before.

 

[DemonSlayer5050]

Yeah,I agree,I mean...who wants a baby like at the age of thirteen.If you aren't over sixteen then you are practically a baby yourself(I don't mean that in a bad way)Anyways,it's supposed to be what you do when you are married,not before.

It's called a condom =/ this isnt about having kids its about sex, and there are ways to prevent children but still have sex, so dont change the topic

 

[mr.chocolate.luv.man]

It's called a condom =/ this isnt about having kids its about sex, and there are ways to prevent children but still have sex, so dont change the topic

I thought they weren't 100 % effective

(well I guess theres still birth control)

*sorrys*

 

[DemonSlayer5050]

ook i think i overreacted a bit ; its just a few other people said they wanted sex after marrige for the same reason, and its kind of invalid since there are condoms, and birth control.

 

[cluck_cluck_chicken]

^^ Well I guess the pregancy risk influences a little bit on sex before marriage. I wouldn't want to be a single parent like my nana who had he first child at 15!

And if you do make sure its legal sex too. My cousin was arrested yesterday for underage sex and underage drinking and also drugs too. (The alcohol and drugs influenced her choice to have sex) Shes only 14!!!! Thats my age! Not to mention shes off to the abortion clinic soon x.x

 

[dmoquinn]

At a young age, I'd say after, I am fully bonded with my future-wife-I-will-have-in-a-few-years.

 

[darkredphantomx]

I'm going to wait until I'm married.
I have a purity ring, and I plan on keeping my promise.

Virginity is a special thing. Once you lose it, you can never get it back again.

:furawatchi: My first reaction to reading this post was, "what the F*&@ is a purity ring? Does it dissolve after you do it or something?" I just, had never heard of something like that.

You're awesome Leafpool, good luck keeping your promise.

But really, virginity is a very special thing. After you lose it you think differently about yourself. So you gotta make sure you're having it at the right time.

I know I'm a bit crude at times but people under the age of 18 shouldn't be having sex and masturbation is a great way to keep your hormones in check (MASTURBATION NOT PROCREATION) .... (I'm sure most of you are thinking I'm crazy by now.) It's really hard to fathom when you're young how much sex can mean, but it's a natural thing that our bodies are made to want and do....

Sex only after marriage though I think is a bit harsh. That's like assuming that you're gonna get married at twenty or something.... I've always been against lots of sexual partners though... that'd just be weird.. :furawatchi: I had sex for the first time at nineteen with a boy I had dated for a few months because he was the one I was going to marry. I felt like he was the one and I didn't need to wait. I've never regretted it. We're still happily together, never leaving each other's side for even a day, for four years. Never a mishap, never an accident (because we're careful).... Sex is one of the most raw and sincere displays of true love. It is excellent for a relationship and builds strong bonds between the two people. It's beautiful despite the way American porn seems to show it.

So, sex before marriage is great. It's great for you, great for the relationship it's wonderful. I do think that unprotected sex should be saved for the wedding night though. That way there is still something special when you get married...

(I think I losted my brains... sorry guys)

 

[_Flame_]

I don't know, honestly. I don't particularly want to wait until I'm married, but it's not like I'm gonna go and have sex when I'm 15 with some random guy or something.

 

[illiey12]

I either would never have sex or if i find a guy right that i been with about 3-5 years then probaly have sex with him i might tell Gunnar that I like him (referred from my topic.)
EDIT: I forgot

illey im eleven too im turning 12 on march 13

Awesome! You're 11 too! You're only 3 months and 4 days older than me.

Now sorry for going off-topic.

I still agree with my last post, I most likely wont have sex before 18 years old, but who knows what will happen??

~illiey12~

 

[DemonSlayer5050]

I don't know, honestly. I don't particularly want to wait until I'm married, but it's not like I'm gonna go and have sex when I'm 15 with some random guy or something.

I feel the same way Flame. I doubt i'll wait till i get married but i wont have sex at like 15, i'll wait till im ready.

 

[mimitchis_rock13579]

I don't know, only time will tell.

In my opinion, the time for sex should not be determined by marital status, as sex is and always has been a biological event. However, I know I won't have sex until I'm out of high school at least.