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[~Miley~]

How do you get the sad away? I'm very sad because my parents might get divored. My mom HAS BEEN CHEATING ON MY DAD. Which really makes me SSOOOOOOO mad. I'm really really upset. My mom is going to vegas, and I'm afraid she will cheat on my dad. Please help.

 

[tamatalker101]

How do you get the sad away? I'm very sad because my  parents might get divored. My mom HAS BEEN CHEATING ON MY DAD. Which really makes me SSOOOOOOO mad. I'm really really upset. My mom is going to vegas, and I'm afraid she will cheat on my dad. Please help.

[SIZE=14pt]Okay sometimes when a dad and a mom marry they love eachother then but their love becomes weaker over time. And lets say the mom finds another man she loves even more than your dad so she feels she needs to be with him. Also known as cheating. The sad thing is you can't really change wat your mom does, but you can talk to a school concerler about wat ur going through and other things that may be bothering you! Srry to hear you are going through all this,[/SIZE]

 

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[PeaceFrog777]

I'm sorry to hear that. My dad used to cheat on my mom before they were divorced so I understand. You should find someone you can really talk to and get this off your chest. A school counselor is a good choice or maybe your best friend.

 

[baybee-x]

My boyfriends dad cheated on his mum when he was 9, and he left them for that woman but 8 years later their all happy - His dad's still with that woman and his mum's kinda moved out to live with her new boyfriend. It probably worked out for the best.

You just need to realise that they still love you no matter what and you really need to be there for your dad now, he's probaly in shock and devastated. And I'm really sorry about what your having to go through.

 

[Nix666]

Look on the bright side, if they get divorced, you get 2 TV's, 2Beds, 2 familys, 2 times the love.

 

[PeaceFrog777]

My boyfriends dad cheated on his mum when he was 9, and he left them for that woman but 8 years later their all happy - His dad's still with that woman and his mum's kinda moved out to live with her new boyfriend. It probably worked out for the best.
You just need to realise that they still love you no matter what and you really need to be there for your dad now, he's probaly in shock and devastated. And I'm really sorry about what your having to go through.

Yeah, my dad also left us for his mistress. He tends to favor the son he had with her over us, but who cares. My mom remarried soon after, and now she's been married for 12 years (three times longer than she was married to my dad). Miley, your dad will find someone more deserving of him, and things will work out for the better. They always tend to.

 

[GotchiGirl96]

Aww, I'm sorry to hear that. You should talk to your school counselor or someone you can just share your feelings with. And make sure to be there for your dad, because of what's going on. You can try to talk to your mom about how you feel about her snooping around with other men, just to let her know what she's doing is making you feel depressed and upset. She probably won't change her ways if she's really in love with another man, but at least she'll know how you feel.

Maybe you can talk to your dad and spend some time with him. You and your dad can share lots of love and share you feelings about your mom and stuff and you can always have him there for you and vice versa. I hope everything works out.