need love help

[snappy c g]

I am a boy and i am kinda stupid about this whole love so here it goes thing there is this girl at school and she is super HOT and girls i was just whanting to know how do you flirt and is it flirting to lock eyes with a boy or girl and just stare at each other because me and t his girl at school do this alot. Is this flirting? does she like me? (i need love advice/help)

 

[x.Tori.x]

She might be flirting with you or not. Staring at people doesn't usually mean your flirting with them. (She might like you, it's hard to tell.) Relax, and don't jump on it too fast. She will think you are desperate. Just walk up to her, and if I were you, I would begin to make friends so it's not out of the blue, and eventually, ask her out. As for flirting with her:

Here are some examples:

1. Show your sense of humor

2. Smile alot, laugh alot

3. Offer to walk her to class

4. Offer to eat lunch with her

5. Trade phone numbers, and text her if you can

NOTE: number 5 and number 4 are the best ways to ask her out.

Good luck!

x.Tori.x

 

[.:FeeBumbleBee:.]

Start talking with her. That would probably be a good start xDD

Be sure to look like you're having fun all the time-- Laugh a lot, smile.

And, no, staring at each other is not generally considered flirting.

 

[~Kaythina~]

As a girl who is into guys, I can tell you that it is not always flirting to be staring at someone for some time. Like she could be thinking good or bad about you. And I can tell you right now, there is no way to tell the difference between a love glare and a hate glare. (I experience both many times each day)

What you should do if you want her to (like-like) you, is talk to her. Get to know each other, always have a positive attitude, and do NOT be afraid to be sad when you are sad. Usually girls are suck ups when boys are upset. (Unless the girl thinks that boy is a total jerk) Offer to sit with her during lunch, offer to walk her to class, tell her some jokes, act funny. Most importantly- Find common ground. Find something you two have in common, and start a conversation with that.

 

[emma_babe]

girls think it's very sexy for the boy to lock eyes and give a sexy or cheeky smile.

also, if you're talking to her, try to copy her body language eg. if she touches her chin, you copy - girls know that the boy likes them if they do that.

hope it works out okaay.

 

[Streetlights.]

^ Copy her? Won't that be a little weird?

 

[emma_babe]

not copying in a major way, just small things like looking down if she does etc, it's a proven fact that a boy likes a girl if they do that, some boys do it without knowing.

 

[Goggle-Face]

girls think it's very sexy for the boy to lock eyes and give a sexy or cheeky smile.also, if you're talking to her, try to copy her body language eg. if she touches her chin, you copy - girls know that the boy likes them if they do that.

hope it works out okaay.

maybe you think that,b ut honestly, that's the worst advice I've heard all day.

'Girls know, Girl's know', this doesn't seem like a girl I'd walk down the street and get turned on by some guy copying me.

 

[FireCracker]

Talk to her

 

[GuitarGirl4life96]

ok heres wat u do if u want the girl 2 like u

1. u find out wat she likes in a guy

2. u make frends with her

3. then u talk 2 each other casually

4. u flirt with her which is saying things like ur cute and i like ur shoes etc......and u say that in a normal convo

and 5. be yourself !

hope i helped

 

[SammiEcstasyx]

Eye contact may be a sign. I don't know. She may think your weird.

That's what guys thought when I was staring at them xD.

Just take it slow.

 

[Chatterbox]

Just be sweet, calm...and most of all, just be yourself! If she likes you for who you really are, then you won't even HAVE to be super conscious about flirting and locking eyes and such. Just start up a conversation with her and see how it goes! ;D Good luck~

~CB

 

[x.Kaeleigh]

She may like you, she may not. Whenever you see her looking at you, you could smile at her, and be nice.

Be yourself, don't be somebody your not or act like that. It's annoying when people do that.

And don't go to fast, take it slow.

 

[kk445]

5. Trade phone numbers, and text her if you can
NOTE: number 5 and number 4 are the best ways to ask her out.

Texting is probably the worst way to ask someone out if you don't talk to them.

When you text, you are more comfortable because You don't have to face them. If you ask them out in a text, and see each other at school the next day, wouldn't that be awkward? Think about it. If I asked someone out I don't even talk to in a text, it would be really uncomfortable to face them the next day. I think you should try to develop a friendship with the girl, and THEN ask her out. If she looks at you, try to to smile. Ask her for her number sometime, and try to build a friendship. Don't text her every day. That might be awkward if she doesn't even know you.

Good Luck

 

[x.Tori.x]

Texting is probably the worst way to ask someone out if you don't talk to them.
When you text, you are more comfortable because You don't have to face them. If you ask them out in a text, and see each other at school the next day, wouldn't that be awkward? Think about it. If I asked someone out I don't even talk to in a text, it would be really uncomfortable to face them the next day. I think you should try to develop a friendship with the girl, and THEN ask her out. If she looks at you, try to to smile. Ask her for her number sometime, and try to build a friendship. Don't text her every day. That might be awkward if she doesn't even know you.

Good Luck

I know I didn't flat out say it like this, but, I meant talk to her, get her phone number, and then start to call her and text her. I didn't mean just immedatily(sp) start texting her and then ask her out. I'm really sorry if I confused anyone.

 

[snappy c g]

Okay guys thanks for all the help i will try this when school starts back up!

oh and before school let out we was all ready talking! (smile)

 

[Doodle_Bear]

Another way,spend time with her and get to know her.