I had to try about a dozen ties before I finally got the matchmaker to come to Wendy. She comes and leaves quickly. As soon as you hear the beep, hit the c button to catch her. If you want a girl, quickly hit the b button after, otherwise you will get a boy. then she will present a mate. his the button at yes and you will then get the new baby.
My sons one came today (9yrs) after I changed the time to get it to come. I think it had come a few times but I/he had missed it. Heard a beep but when looked nothing there now thing that was the Matchmaker