When you see the post of a member you want to PM, look under the post for the PM button. Click on it, type the message you want to send, and send it! If you can't find any posts by the member, but know their account number, type "https://www.tamatalk.com/IB/index.php?showuser=" and then the account number. Go to the contact area. At the bottom, click the PM link. Type the message, and then send it!How do u pm? Please pm me back.