For one thing, I think you better have a nice, long look around Tamatalk. Do you see any nasty posts, do you see anything inappropiate? Nope. So just lean back, sip some tea, and scroll down the pages of Tamatalk. Nice and slow...nice and slow....because, you never know who's a pervert. So it's your choice on whether the site's safe. If you don't give out personal information, than it's totally safe. Understand?