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I love my boyfriend but he doesn't seem to like me as much and I like a lot of other guys that I could go out with but I don't....and it is really fustrating because he gets on my nevers sometimes but I [SIZE=14pt]really[/SIZE] do love him what should I do

 
awww... if he doesn't love you, then he is not worth your time! if you love him that much, take the time to seriously talk about it <_<

 
awww... if he doesn't love you, then he is not worth your time! if you love him that much, take the time to seriously talk about it <_<
Yeah, exactly. Don't go chasing after a guy who doesn't like you.

 
I love my boyfriend but he doesn't seem to like me as much and I like a lot of other guys that I could go out with but I don't....and it is really fustrating because he gets on my nevers sometimes but I [SIZE=14pt]really[/SIZE] do love him what should I do
That what ticked me off. You said you REALLY loved this guy, but then again there are tons of other boys you like and could go out with...I mean what the heck!? When you truly love somebody, you don't like anybody else. Sorry girl, but I'm sure that it's the need of havign a boyfriend more than love. I could be wrong, but after hearing that....

Ok, enough of my negitive comments. Here is a bit of positive.

If he doesn't like you, then don't waste your time on him. Move on. He's not worth it.

 
Well you say that you love him and he loves you just not as much. I jut think you have to think about how much the relationship means to you. If you think that you could find another guy who is better for you than him. Because if you think that he is not worth it than dump him. Someone who loves you but isn't commited to your relationship isn't worth your time. Then if you decide that you don't like anyone, talk to him... tell him what is bugging you. If he doesn't change then definetly move on. If you are really feeling bummed out about your break up than I would suggest you hang out with him and find out if you really miss him. Sometimes your percepective changes when you're not in a relationship. If none of the above work than maybe you -I hate to soudn so corny but- weren't meant for each other.

 
uh thanks
Well everyone does make good points. You don't really love him. You're throwing the word around a lot. You yourself made the comment you could be with other guys. It's not love in my eyes or other's eyes. It's a crush. He obviously isn't as interested as you are in the relationship because it's not serious. Could also be you're a bit clingy with him and some guys really don't like girls clinging to their arms and obsessing about them.

I suggest if you want any chance of this getting anywhere better talk to him. You guys need to decide to either take it slow or try again in the relationship when you guys are older and more mature. If you both are willing to wait it out a bit, put the bf/gf garbage on hiatus. You don't need a relationship like that right be a kid, grow up a bit then try again. Probably will last longer if you do this.

 
Well everyone does make good points. You don't really love him. You're throwing the word around a lot. You yourself made the comment you could be with other guys. It's not love in my eyes or other's eyes. It's a crush. He obviously isn't as interested as you are in the relationship because it's not serious. Could also be you're a bit clingy with him and some guys really don't like girls clinging to their arms and obsessing about them.
I suggest if you want any chance of this getting anywhere better talk to him. You guys need to decide to either take it slow or try again in the relationship when you guys are older and more mature. If you both are willing to wait it out a bit, put the bf/gf garbage on hiatus. You don't need a relationship like that right be a kid, grow up a bit then try again. Probably will last longer if you do this.
Ugh, you took the words right out my mouth. Couldn't say it better, kudos to you.

I'd say they don't need our advice, they can figure it out on theirselves ..

 
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How old are you? It sounds like your pretty young, because as others have said, you obviously don't love him. Love, as the others have noted, isn't a term you just throw around. And considering you are throwing it around as you are, I assume you are quite young. You have a long time before you need to start worrying about actual love. You'll probably break up with this guy and have several other boyfriends before you ever actually find true love. Just let this one go its course. If you like other guys, you might even want to break up with him now.

 
I love my boyfriend but he doesn't seem to like me as much and I like a lot of other guys that I could go out with but I don't....and it is really fustrating because he gets on my nevers sometimes but I [SIZE=14pt]really[/SIZE] do love him what should I do
I love my boyfriend, and he loves me just as much. I don't want to go out with other boys & I don't care if people like me. I don't even look at boys anymore it's pointless in my opinion.

Love isn't a competition, you don't actually know how much he loves you. You really do use the term Love loosly - Would you rather him lie? I agree with the other people it's probably just a crush that you think is love.

I started going out with my boyfriend 2 weeks after I turned 15 and I didn't have the outlook you had. I didn't think "I bet he doesn't love me as much as I love him...He should!" We loved each other from the start but now we really are in love and are very happy you can't expect everything in a month sometimes it takes time.

 
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