i have a problem

[dragon]

my mate has an older brother and i relly like him. i am 2 shy to tell any one else coz day miht laugh. wot shud i do :mimitchi:

 

[tamaw/pants]

Oo, toughie.

Well, I would just say don't tell him.

It's probably just a little crush that will fade in a little.

No need to hurt a relationship for that.

 

[Sakura3200]

my mate has an older brother and i really like him. i am too shy to tell any one else 'cause day might laugh. what should i do     :mimitchi:  

*points to quote* anyone that can't understand what she's saying, I edited it too better grammer.

Mabe you should wait, be friends with him.

 

[baybee-x]

If you don't already talk to him or know him that well you should get to know him, to see if you still like him.

 

[dragon]

If you don't already talk to him or know him that well you should get to know him, to see if you still like him.

gud point

 

[dragon]

another problem! my friend knows i fancy her older bro and shes teasin me about it. ( though she fancies my lil and older bros )

 

[yoshi999]

just tell him.

deal with it if he says no.

im a guy.

i know wat most of us like.

 

[dragon]

but hes 15! i am 11. he barely talks to me(unless he wants mmoney or 2 borrow my bus pass coz he forgot his d day before or 2 tell me whether his lil sis is cumin in 2 school)

 

[Miss Matchmaker]

What would happen if you told your friend?

I don't think anything would ever happen between their brother and you, anyway, because too much age difference. I'm sorry, but it's prolly true.

Like tamaw/ pants said, if it will hurt you and your friend's relationship, don't say anything.

Matchy

 

[*~Jess~*]

but hes 15! i am 11. he barely talks to me(unless he wants mmoney or 2 borrow my bus pass coz he forgot his d day before or 2 tell me whether his lil sis is cumin in 2 school)

He's too old for you, dragon. Plus, he's probably not your type considering the age difference. Just give it a rest for a while. But to be honest, I never thnk you and him will become boyfriend and girlfriend.

 

[Shatagama]

I'm not saying this to offend any boys but aren't boys meant to mature slower than girls? (Once again: No offence meant!) They're supposed to mature slower so it's best to chose a guy who's three years older than you. He's four years older than you right? Well it's not really that big an age gap. Try talking to him. Find out what he likes and talk to him about them. It couldnt hurt to try!

That's just my oppinion!!!

Good Luck!

Shatagama!

 

[tamaw/pants]

I'm not saying this to offend any boys but aren't boys meant to mature slower than girls? (Once again: No offence meant!) They're supposed to mature slower so it's best to chose a guy who's three years older than you. He's four years older than you right? Well it's not really that big an age gap. Try talking to him. Find out what he likes and talk to him about them. It couldnt hurt to try! That's just my oppinion!!!

Good Luck!

Shatagama!

Yes that is true. In most cases guys develope mentaly slower then girls- but not 15. Yeah, they are immature still [some more than others] but 11 and 15 is a HUGE maturity gap.

11 is what? 5-6 grade? 15 is 9th-10th. It IS a major difference. Even 6th to 8th is a big difference- I can tell you from experience.

 

[Shatagama]

Yes that is true. In most cases guys develope mentaly slower then girls- but not 15. Yeah, they are immature still [some more than others] but 11 and 15 is a HUGE maturity gap.11 is what? 5-6 grade? 15 is 9th-10th. It IS a major difference. Even 6th to 8th is a big difference- I can tell you from experience.

Well like I said thats just my oppinion and thats how I feel. I know others have a different oppinion so like I said, thats just mine.

 

[dragon]

Yes that is true. In most cases guys develope mentaly slower then girls- but not 15. Yeah, they are immature still [some more than others] but 11 and 15 is a HUGE maturity gap.11 is what? 5-6 grade? 15 is 9th-10th. It IS a major difference. Even 6th to 8th is a big difference- I can tell you from experience.

he is in year 10. i am in year 7. well its a shorter distance than this other lad. he is in 6th form

 

[dragon]

He's too old for you, dragon. Plus, he's probably not your type considering the age difference. Just give it a rest for a while. But to be honest, I never thnk you and him will become boyfriend and girlfriend.

well if u fink about it den age dusnt really matter. my dad is 52 and my mum is 38!

 

[dragon]

What would happen if you told your friend? I don't think anything would ever happen between their brother and you, anyway, because too much age difference. I'm sorry, but it's prolly true.

Like tamaw/ pants said, if it will hurt you and your friend's relationship, don't say anything.

Matchy

i wasnt going to. my friend knows anyway. i didnt tell her. she found out. she said it dusnt matter coz her older bro is really popular anyway.

 

[Sweet Kandi]

well if u fink about it den age dusnt really matter. my dad is 52 and my mum is 38!

The saying 'age doesn't matter' is only true if both people are over 18. When he's 18, you'll be 14. A relationship would be illegal and frowned upon by other people. It can also get him in quite a bit of trouble if anything intimate were to happen.

I wouldn't bother trying to pursue a relationship with him. As someone before me said 11 to 15 is a huge maturity gap. He's already going through puberty and maturing mentally and physically, while (not to be rude) you're still a child.

Also, most 15 year old boys are still pretty immature. Trust me, you don't want to be with an immature guy.

 

[**UrItChI**]

That's a Toughie.

I suggest that you dont tell him.

Evereyone gets crushes, big or small.

Age difference shouldnt really matter,

but guys minds develop slowly.

If you really think about it, nothing is really ever going to happen between you and him.

Enjoy being a kid, and get your mind off things that you really dont need to be worried about.(for a couple years or so!)

Think about the other good things in life.

Soon, this guy will disappear from your mind.

You will feel so much better!

After all, there are always more fish in the sea.

(Not to mention, that are your age!)

-Rachel♥

 

[dragon]

The saying 'age doesn't matter' is only true if both people are over 18. When he's 18, you'll be 14. A relationship would be illegal and frowned upon by other people. It can also get him in quite a bit of trouble if anything intimate were to happen.
I wouldn't bother trying to pursue a relationship with him. As someone before me said 11 to 15 is a huge maturity gap. He's already going through puberty and maturing mentally and physically, while (not to be rude) you're still a child.

Also, most 15 year old boys are still pretty immature. Trust me, you don't want to be with an immature guy.

i dont finc he wud want 2 be wit a pain like me! lol!