I hate K###! >.<

[meowbark]

Well there is some girl in my school named K###. She hates me for no reason whatsoever. Usually people have a reason. I can only think she listened to other people starting rumors. When I walk by she yells "EWWWWWWWWWWWWW!" or when I ask her something nicely she tells me to shut up!

Well today I was readin a novel by my favorite author (Meg Cabot) It was called "How to be Popular" It was about a girl, a boy, and another girl- All Highschoolers. She picks up my book in the hallway and looks at my in a horrible look like "Haha, look the babies trying to be popular!" When I tried to tell her it was a fiction story by my fav. author she just yelled at me to shut up!

Im not against Fat people, just this one girl! What should I do?

*binary: did you ever consider that there might be members here with that name too? So, let's just say K#### instead of using a name.*

 

[Jinx3295]

you should try to talk to her and tell her how you think she is being towards you. If this doesn't work, just ignore her or tell her to leave you alone. Oh, and i love your new avatar...it is is Kana...right?

 

[yesenia]

Well there is some girl in my school named K###. She hates me for no reason whatsoever. Usually people have a reason. I can only think she listened to other people starting rumors. When I walk by she yells "EWWWWWWWWWWWWW!" or when I ask her something nicely she tells me to shut up!
Well today I was readin a novel by my favorite author (Meg Cabot) It was called "How to be Popular" It was about a girl, a boy, and another girl- All Highschoolers. She picks up my book in the hallway and looks at my in a horrible look like "Haha, look the babies trying to be popular!" When I tried to tell her it was a fiction story by my fav. author she just yelled at me to shut up!

Im not against Fat people, just this one girl! What should I do?

just dont look at her and when she says eww start talking "secrets" and look at her but while u r not really going 2 say the secret,u r just going 2 tell u friend that u r saing a fake secret into her ear just 2 get her 2 get mad! and if u r alone start huming and singing...

 

[tamtamkitty07]

Talk to her about it, and stay by friends because bullies never bully if your with your friends. Also if this problem is getting worse and worse I strongly recomending going to as teacher or a guidance counceller.

 

[yesenia]

you should try to talk to her and tell her how you think she is being towards you. If this doesn't work, just ignore her or tell her to leave you alone. Oh, and i love your new avatar...it is is Kana...right?

but evry time she talks 2 her she imedietly says shut up,so its not gonna work

 

[tamaw/pants]

Well persoanly when you say 'I hate K###' and call her fat, I have no sympathy for you.

What she did/does is not right, but you just stooped to her level.

 

[Jinx3295]

tamaw/pants is right.

 

[meowbark]

Well persoanly when you say 'I hate K###' and call her fat, I have no sympathy for you.What she did/does is not right, but you just stooped to her level.

You dont understand, she is fat. Their is another girl who used to hate me but now is nice to me. Ive tried reasoning with her but noooooo

And yes that is Kanna! ^.^ I like the way she sounds in the English Anime

 

[yesenia]

Well persoanly when you say 'I hate K###' and call her fat, I have no sympathy for you.What she did/does is not right, but you just stooped to her level.

i dont get u...(hey,ive been noticing in evry single post,u use hard words that i dont undertand...)

 

[tamtamkitty07]

Well persoanly when you say 'I hate K###' and call her fat, I have no sympathy for you.What she did/does is not right, but you just stooped to her level.

When you put it that way I strongly agree. You should never hate anyone no matter how mean.

This girl could be going through alot at home, and wants to let her anger out on someone so she feels better about herself.

You never know the possibilities are endless.

 

[Jinx3295]

talk about it with a guidence counseler or teacher......

 

[tamalight]

Well persoanly when you say 'I hate K###' and call her fat, I have no sympathy for you.What she did/does is not right, but you just stooped to her level.

tamaw/pants is right. 'Hate' is a strong word. Even if she is that mean to you, you should not make fun of her. That is talking behind people's back, I don't like that since they do it to me sometimes. If it is that bad just try to reason with her. If that doesn't work then, tell a teacher. Maybe even your parents. But please don't say things like that. I don't think any person deserves to be called that word, or being made fun of. She is probably very unfriendly because she doesn't have friends and is jeleaus of people who have friends. There is a reason for everything. Sometimes people just don't like someone because they don't know what/how they are. Also because she doesn't know what to do. She is probably very sad and lonely. When I am sad I usually hide it with my anger. So maybe that's her problem. Making fun and stooping down to her level is not going to make things better, only worse.

 

[pugsrule51996]

Talk to her about it, and stay by friends because bullies never bully if your with your friends. Also if this problem is getting worse and worse I strongly recomending going to as teacher or a guidance counceller. :furawatchi:

you should listen to tamakitty07.she helped me w/ my bullying problem.

 

[tenniswinner]

Well calling her fat isn't going to help you. That's just like fighting back.

Let it go, and just ignore her. Tell her that you'll tell the teacher if she doesn't stop. And if she really doesn't stop, then tell the teacher.

 

[Shikamarusgirl18]

you should talk to a parent or adult you trust like a guidence councaler &lt;-(spelling?) and try to talk to her. (k###)

 

[tamakitty710]

you should listen to tamakitty07.she helped me w/ my bullying problem.        

DER she was talking about ME!! xP

I also agree with tamaw/pants, when you call her names like that, you're simply stooping to her level. If she's really being that mean, just ignore her. I was never the kind of person who could go up to someone and say "Hey, why are you being so mean?" or "Hey, can I talk to you about this?" but that's just me ;P Sometimes people get mean when they've been stressed, or if something bad happened to them. I had a friend who was really mean to me for the past few years, but this year she apologized to me. She got out a bag of beef jerky and said "This is me... I'm really sorry." (noting that she was saying sorry for being such a JERKy) Sometimes when things are really bad at home for me, I sorta snap at people. It's not okay, but sometimes people are just like that depending on how they feel. If it's been happening for a LONG time, like YEARS, maybe that's just the kind of personality she has. I have had a best friend who was VERY egotistical, meaning she only cared about herself. She would get mad over the LITTLEST things. We were supposed to have a sleepover last weekend, but I couldn't have it on Friday-Saturday because I had a doctor's appointment in the morning on Sat., and she wouldn't talk to me the next day, just because it "didn't work for her," because she wanted it on Fri-Sat!!! **cools down** So I basically snapped and called her an egotistical jerk who only cared if people had things that were ostentatious enough for her. So, I ditched her and got new best friends sometimes peoples' personalities just don't click. That's fine. But my advice is:

Just try to ignore her the best you can! That usually helps for me. I've gotten so used to people bullying me that I've just been able to ignore it. People don't really get to me that much. I also usually get them back for it before they have a chance to know what happened! **muahaha** but try the best you can to ignore her. You can PM me if you need any more help! And I don't mean calling people names by "Getting them back," just making up (usually corny) comebacks.

♪~tk710

 

[tamtamkitty07]

Don't call her tamakitty07 It's simply one number away from MY username.

Unfortunatly our usernames are too much alike.

Anyways, do you ever get mad at someone, say your mother? Maybe you did this because you were having a bad day, and needed to let out your feelings, and I believe this is what's happening to "K###". She might be having troubles at home, or problems with friends or self-esteem, so give her a break. Just do your best to avoid her, be nice and ignore her, but if this problem starts to get violent, see a teacher or guidance counceller, they always help.

Remember, you never truely "hate" someone, because hate is such a strong word, and who knows? Maybe in a few year you will regret saying this about her.

 

[tamakitty710]

Unfortunatly our usernames are too much alike.
Anyways, do you ever get mad at someone, say your mother? Maybe you did this because you were having a bad day, and needed to let out your feelings, and I believe this is what's happening to "K###". She might be having troubles at home, or problems with friends or self-esteem, so give her a break. Just do your best to avoid her, be nice and ignore her, but if this problem starts to get violent, see a teacher or guidance counceller, they always help.

Remember, you never truely "hate" someone, because hate is such a strong word, and who knows? Maybe in a few year you will regret saying this about her. 

Yes, well, I joined first, so... xP! Copy CAT xD Lolzers!

But, just leave her alone. Maybe she'll stop if she sees that it's not bothering you (on the outside). Some people are just mean for fun....

♪~tk710

 

[born_naturalfigureskater122]

Well just act like it doesn't bother you. She is getting pleasure by doing this.....

 

[lil*kitty*kat]

Hm....Whatever you do, do not listen to anything I say. Ever. I give bad advice...

Although you could try talking to someone...

Whatever you do, don't do this:

Scream "@!*# you!" and kick em in the shin. Never....it was stupid advice I gave to kerrybridget. LOL I wonder how far she'll get wit that advice.

~Naira