How old do you have 2 be to have a girlfriend?

[Ronaldo]

Really it depends on your maturity... =/

Love has no limit. Does it matter what age you have to be to be in a relationship? True love lasts forever. Are you mature enough to have this relationship and stay true to them forver and get married? If yes, listen to me. If no, then don't. That's what I believe about how old you have to be to have boy/girlfriend. Point of post :-love has no age limit./ Are you mature enough to have a serious relationship?

 

[Emmatutu]

Hmm, 14 or 15 is about the time when you can start having SERIOUS relationships. Love has NO limit, but you should save the "BIG STUFF" for when your OLDER.

 

[Kawaii-Kitty]

I guess a "relationship" at that age gives you a "childhood" if you like dating. I remember when I dated at 12, and he dumped me a week later. I still have good memories from it, and maybe still kinda like him. It's all what you think - just wait tho. Don't get serious.

 

[tamaw/pants]

Did I already post? These kinds of topics seem to run together. I'll just treat it like I haven't.

First, age does play a role simply by that [hopefully] as you grow older you mature as well. You then have to figure out if this "love" is just a crush or if it's really love. Love is something you have to work at and a crush is just immature love. A crush basically creates another person in your mind taking only the good things and making the person seem perfect. Real love accepts the whole- not just the person in the figment of your imagination. That is a crush, that is immature love.

And no, love is not "when you get butterflies in your stomach when you see them" as the cliche on those avvies go- it's so much more than that.

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves."

-- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

 

[Kishu Inu]

Depends on maturity. I started dating in grade THREE, to be honest. I'm in fifth grade now. With the same guy. I love him... he takes my breath away just seeing him.

One of those blessed things in this tainted world.

But the thing is, if you love, with your partner you must be fearless yet as humble as the smallest child. You do not boast about it... few people know what love is. Alot think it's just sex.

 

[Anime girl]

Hmm, 14 or 15 is about the time when you can start having SERIOUS relationships. Love has NO limit, but you should save the "BIG STUFF" for when your OLDER.

[SIZE=13pt]Lol. I WOULDN'T SAAAAY THAT! xD[/SIZE]

Relationships at 14 and 15 don't usually last that long. o.o'

(Depending on the couple)

But seriously. Not a lot of serious relationships last at this age. >.> Trust me.

People get surprised if you say you've been with someone for more then 5 months. lol.

 

But I wouldn't say that this is the MAJOR age of serious relationships.

 

[tamaw/pants]

[SIZE=13pt]Lol. I WOULDN'T SAAAAY THAT! xD[/SIZE]Relationships at 14 and 15 don't usually last that long. o.o'

(Depending on the couple)

But seriously. Not a lot of serious relationships last at this age. >.> Trust me.

People get surprised if you say you've been with someone for more then 5 months. lol.

 

But I wouldn't say that this is the MAJOR age of serious relationships.

I've heard of a statistic that said that only 3% of highschool "sweethearts" remain together and actually get married. That means, with the divorce rate at one out of two marriages will end in divorce, only 1.5% actually stick together forever.

Such a sad statistic but I don't doubt it.

 

[Fishfreak]

Im not saying I want a serious relathionship or anything. (Im eleven by, seriously)

Im just curious at what age would be appropiate.

 

[Anime girl]

I've heard of a statistic that said that only 3% of highschool "sweethearts" remain together and actually get married. That means, with the divorce rate at one out of two marriages will end in divorce, only 1.5% actually stick together forever.
Such a sad statistic but I don't doubt it.

[SIZE=13pt]O__O Holy smokes! Is the divorce rate really that high?! >_<[/SIZE]

Ouch~...It makes sense...But it's kinda sad to think about. D:...

 

Hope I never get divorced. T_T

 

[tomrules74185296]

Did I already post? These kinds of topics seem to run together. I'll just treat it like I haven't.
First, age does play a role simply by that [hopefully] as you grow older you mature as well. You then have to figure out if this "love" is just a crush or if it's really love. Love is something you have to work at and a crush is just immature love. A crush basically creates another person in your mind taking only the good things and making the person seem perfect. Real love accepts the whole- not just the person in the figment of your imagination. That is a crush, that is immature love.

And no, love is not "when you get butterflies in your stomach when you see them" as the cliche on those avvies go- it's so much more than that.

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves."

-- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Yeah. I remember TamaTalk before all the members came in and started posting about these topics.

I get mixed up like you do, forgetting if I already posted.

Maturity matters, and how much you love him/her.

Don't waste your time on a crush. Make sure you REALLY love this person before you ask.