I am expecting my Tamagotchi P in about a month and i don´t know how to transfer files and my parents song want to buy me a phone for it or one of these USBs so what can i do? PLEASE HELP!!
There are translations of what all the menu options are available for if you can't download the English patch. One of them is available on these forums.
There are also videos you can search out on YouTube if you're more a visual learner.
Try using one of those for awhile (write yourself a cheat - sheet sou you're not tethered to the browser if that's better for you.) If that's not working out for you, see if you can earn money to give to your parents to buy the IRdongle with that. It is no garuntee but if you get an allowance or can earn money for doing extra chores around the house, they might possibly be more willing to buy it if it's with money you worked to earn for yourself.
