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[Doglover10]

last year i was popular but this year im the biggest geek in class! i have theese bad looking glasses i have to wear every day and i have alergies so my eyes are all red and people are so mean to me! I was pared up with this one boy for a health project and right after the teacher anouced it every one laghed and told him they feel bad for him! i felt so stupid! and also since the fires are burnig around us and the smoke was in the air we had to eat lunch in class and so when i was walking to the room with my lunch i knocked on the door and no one let me in! i stood out there for ten minutes until this boy ( my crush) found out and opened the door. The whole class (exept my crush) was in on it and laghing. not to mechon my best friendis like perfect in every way wich makes it only worse when im compared to them! h34r:

 

[tenniswinner]

The first thing I need to tell you is NOBODY is perfect. We all have flaws and differences that makes the thought of being the same impossible. But we learn to accept eachother, and right now it seems like people aren't accepting you. If people laugh at you, laugh with them. It helps a ton be join the fun than be on the outside of it. And allergy season will be over soon, so your redness will fade away!

As for the glasses, don't worry about them. People aren't used to them. After a while people will know them as a part of you, not something that sticks out. Just give everything time. As for the boy who got paired up with you, if people want to tell him things, let them. Just ignore it. They're probably jsut jealous because they want to be with you.

 

[Doglover10]

The first thing I need to tell you is NOBODY is perfect.  We all have flaws and differences that makes the thought of being the same impossible.  But we learn to accept eachother, and right now it seems like people aren't accepting you.  If people laugh at you, laugh with them.  It helps a ton be join the fun than be on the outside of it.  And allergy season will be over soon, so your redness will fade away! As for the glasses, don't worry about them.  People aren't used to them.  After a while people will know them as a part of you, not something that sticks out.  Just give everything time.  As for the boy who got paired up with you, if people want to tell him things, let them.  Just ignore it.  They're probably jsut jealous because they want to be with you.

i do know that nobody is perfect and I do laght with them but thax for the advice any way, its just i act like i just wipe it off my shoulder but when i get home i feel so down cuz it feels like EVERY one is agenst me and even when people get used to my "new"aperece only the nice people will acept me witch is only like, 2% of my class! any way, life goes on, ya know?

 

[Kawaii-Kitty]

*removed by me*

Sorry, I was being rude...

Umm okay, umm chill, you'll feel better soon if you hang out with your friends more, and call them on the phone, email, etc.

 

[tamagotchi_pal]

last year i was popular but this year im the biggest geek in class! i have theese bad looking glasses i have to wear every day and i have alergies so my eyes are all red and people are so mean to me! I was pared up with this one boy for a health project and right after the teacher anouced it every one laghed and told him they feel bad for him! i felt so stupid! and also since the fires are burnig around us and the smoke was in the air we had to eat lunch in class and so when i was walking to the room with my lunch i knocked on the door and no one let me in! i stood out there for ten minutes until this boy ( my crush) found out and opened the door. The whole class (exept my crush) was in on it and laghing. not to mechon my best friendis like perfect in every way wich makes it only worse when im compared to them!

People cant tease you for things you can't help.

Just be normal and hang out with the nice kids

 

[Rayy]

If people are suddenly mean to you because you have to wear glasses, then they obviously aren't real friends.

Ignore them or something.

 

[tamagotchi_pal]

Rayy is right. They arent real friends .

 

[tamagirl9406]

Don't worry. Last year I went the other way. Iwent from geeky big glasses wearing girl with 1 or 2 friends, very shy, always teased to popular, preppy, contact lense wearing girl with tons of friends, super outgoing, and never teased except by people who are jealous. So don't worry. Your real friends will be behind you no matter what you go through.

 

[Midnight Sonata]

Ok Well people always judge other people by first impressions but the nice people take the time to know the person.

this won't go on forever.Just try to get to know the people who are'nt shallow and you will have friends. And rember: Its better to have one loyal friend than a million fake ones. Like evreyones else said try to find new nice friends.

 

Good Luck♪♪

 

[princess08]

last year i was popular but this year im the biggest geek in class! i have theese bad looking glasses i have to wear every day and i have alergies so my eyes are all red and people are so mean to me! I was pared up with this one boy for a health project and right after the teacher anouced it every one laghed and told him they feel bad for him! h34r: i felt so stupid! and also since the fires are burnig around us and the smoke was in the air we had to eat lunch in class and so when i was walking to the room with my lunch i knocked on the door and no one let me in! i stood out there for ten minutes until this boy ( my crush) found out and opened the door. The whole class (exept my crush) was in on it and laghing. not to mechon my best friendis like perfect in every way wich makes it only worse when im compared to them! :furawatchi:

Popularity really doesn't matter. Soon you'll clear up, and if your really uncomfortable with glasses you can consider contacts. Allergies are fixable with allergy medication, and as long as you have some confidence and you don't stand there like a fish (thats a metaphor.) while people are taunting you, you'll be okay.

 

[tamagotchi_pal]

I'm sure if you act nicely, you will find some proper, real friends.

PS. Change the siggy, princess08. I joined a year before you

 

[123tamagirl456]

thats so mean! they shouldnt judge u by how u look. i feel so sry for u

 

[Filter]

'Nerd' is a label. If you feel happy inside, you should show it. I think your class is being very rude and mean in many aspects, but try not to let it get to you. As long as they aren't using violence, your on the safe side!

If you think you've got it bad, you should see somebody in our class.

Anyway, you've got friends to stick by you. As mentioned before by TW, nobody is perfect. Therefore nobody should try to be, as it's a waste of time.

 

[RachelGotchi]

"Those who matter don't care,

and those who care don't matter."

Find friends and people that couldn't care less about your glasses and allergies.

 

[baybee-x]

Tennis is right, no one is perfect. It is really cruel how they treated you, and it does happen to alot of people. In my college we often lock teachers out - but it's a joke for the teacher as well so it's not bullying even though it's not very nice. You should talk to your best friend and tell her how humiliated you felt that she was laughing at you as well and basically think if you really want to be best friends with someone like that.

You should try and talk to your crush as well, because he seems like a really nice boy. If there is anyone else you could hang around with try and talk to them because you seem like you're feeling low from all of this. I'm sure you aren't a geek .

 

[Locky458]

Well help to 50 percent of your problem you should try out some contacts. Also you could find some "cute" glasses in the store. Not all glasses are ugly.

You do realize the most people who are popular goes through a lot of problems and get the most talked about?

Find someone who cares about you, and doesn't care how bad or funny you look.

 

[*BaBi*GuRl*]

Who cares what other people think? Im sure your awesome and you will stay that way. But you can get contacts if it makes you feel better about yourself.

*BaBi*

 

[Doglover10]

thanx so much al of u!

i DID hurt alot just the though that there are people out there snickering about me but i realized things could be worse i felt so bad the outher day i saw a girl from the "speacal" need class sitting all alone and waching the outher kids play. I sat with her and talked to her. She was just like u or me she just had cesures somtimes and she had one at school the outher day so no one would talk to her cuz they thought she was a freak. And then they moved her to a special needs class just because of that! she is now my friend! and to think i felt sorry for myself just because of people teasing!!

 

[TamaXTREAM]

I've got a great solution for you. I mean to fix the stuff you don't like about your appearance I mean. Besides the last one. It will make you feel better, hopefully.

1. Get contacts because they don't hurt at all and can really transform a person's appearance.

2. There's this stuff called Visine-A (and I probably spelled that wrong because I'm not having allergies right now) and it will relieve itchy eyes and make the redness go away. Reccomended.

3. If someone calls you a nerd, say "If a nerd is what you aren't, then you bet I'm happy to be it." Shut 'em up, all right.

 

[blue_husky]

take a break it normal and by the way whats ur name because some 1 at my shool moved away and she was populer