This is getting silly.
People are explaining why it is not a good idea to date "on line" - and there have been some good, sensible explanations which I hope everyone else is taking on board.
However, this topic is not going to be used as an opportunity for anyone to post "self pitying" or "self important" replies - or inflamatory remarks.
I hope everyone understands why I am closing this topic - with a request that no more like it are made.
CLOSED