i'm not sure i get what you're trying to do.... you cant connect with ANY infrared thing... Items you can get from the Shop if you have enough Gotchi-points from Games, and if you want to breed, the Matchmaker will come to your pet at about 7 years so you dont NEED another Tama to get more items and breed...
Who told you Connecting with your Remote's Infrared light will give you items??? i will sriously beat them to a pulp....