If you have two that are of the opposite gender, connect them many times as they grow up. Eventually when they are adults, 4 hearts will display under the other tama's name in the friends list. After both have been adults for 48 hours, they will mate and the mom will produce 2 babies - one stays with mom, the other goes with dad.So instead of using the matchmaker you can just connect and get babies? you can't give presents and stuff?