What should i do ?

[xxLiimeSweetxx]

ok so ,

i am engaged to a guy who is really really jealous,

& i went to church on sunday as i do every sunday & randomly these guys went up to me & we all started talking ,

nothing serious ,

just anime , school , odd things in life etc.

&

one of them ( whos my age ) took a picture of me & the other one ( whos older , as in he has a kid and is married ) gave me his e-mail address ,

well anyway

what do i do if my boyfriend goes with me to church ??

or if the guy whos my age asks for my number ??

weve just been talking ( they guy my age and i more so than the older one )

but my boyfriends extremely jealous .....

so

what should i do ??

should i stop talking to them ??

or should i just hide it ??

( yes i know hideing things isnt a good idea but , so far , hes a really cool friend & im not really allowed to talk to anyone but my boyfriend because as ive said hes really really jealous )

 

[TamaMum]

Are you serious?

You're engaged to be married and you are asking us if you should give another guy your phone number if he asks for it..?

I'm sorry, but there are so many things "wrong" about your post that I wonder if you are kidding us all.

We can't live your life for you, but really, if you are serious then I suggest some of the following:

1. Throw the email address away. What possible use is it to you if you are engaged to be married?

2. Don't give out your phone number to other men if you are engaged to be married.

3. Don't stop talking to other men altogether just because you are engaged to be married, but be smarter about the difference between friendly chats and flirting.

4. Reconsider whether it is a good idea to be committed to marrying someone when you clearly are not sure if giving out your telephone number to another man or accepting another man's email address is appropriate.

5. Reconsider what kind of marriage / relationship you may have in the future if (as you claim) your fiance forbids you to talk to other men.

 

[DemonSlayer5050]

Um...even if your fiance is the jealous type, he has a right to be jealous if you are taking guys phone numbers and email adresses when you are engaged to be married! I agree with tamamum, i really think it's wrong. Plus, no offense, but I don't think you are engaged. If you were old enough, I highly doubt you'd need our help in the problem when it is YOUR fault. I'm sorry if I sound rude, but i'm being honest but I do have a question, Do those men know you are engaged? because to be honest, they could just want to go out with you and stuff so thats why they are acting this way. I'd say don't worry if he finds out, I say worry about it NOW. You need to stop this while you can. That is my advice.

EDIT: I've noticed upon reading it again, that you refered to him as your "boyfriend" So does that mean you aren't engaged? when you are engaged, you refer to them as a fiance, so, are you really engaged? *suspicious look* also anime, school, what? You are in school and are engaged?! ok i doubt you're engaged, try a new word