This aint fair

[meowbark]

Well lets say I found red on one of my favorite blankets (Its a throw sheet thingy) When I had no idea how it got their. So I decided to put it on top of the washer (It was already in use) And went back to bed, I heard my mom yelling "IM TIRED OF CLEANING HER SHEETS!" That blanket hadn't put cleaned since CHRISTMAS. I put in a few dirty blankets a few days back since I needed new sheets (I change them every week or 2) but it seems my mom don't care!

Oh and just about a hour ago, My brother shot me with his air gun! I told my dad and shew him the mark but whats Jacobs punishment?! DO HIS HOMEWORK! That just PROVES I am my dads punching bag! Im the only female child in the house and ALWAYS get slapped to a pulp, or beaten with a belt- BUT MY BROTHER JUST GETS YELLED AT! When I was 10 like Jacob is now, I got slapped to death but he dont >.< Im only lucky to get to use the Home Computer because I have nothing better to do, and my parents know that. I only spend time either- 1: At School 2: In my room 3: Using the Computer

 

[It's Tina!]

Well, it's not his fault, he is still a child. You can't really blame the little guy. Sooner or later he'll thank you. And don't get mad at your parents, cause you might regret it.

 

[meowbark]

He shot me ON PURPOSE. He is 10! He knows what is right and wrong

Oh and please tell me, why is it OK for HIM not to get slapped? *rubs Sunburn*

 

[*santagotchi*]

Well lets say I found red on one of my favorite blankets (Its a throw sheet thingy) When I had no idea how it got their. So I decided to put it on top of the washer (It was already in use) And went back to bed, I heard my mom yelling "IM TIRED OF CLEANING HER SHEETS!" That blanket hadn't put cleaned since CHRISTMAS. I put in a few dirty blankets a few days back since I needed new sheets (I change them every week or 2) but it seems my mom don't care!
Oh and just about a hour ago, My brother shot me with his air gun! I told my dad and shew him the mark but whats Jacobs punishment?! DO HIS HOMEWORK! That just PROVES I am my dads punching bag! Im the only female child in the house and ALWAYS get slapped to a pulp, or beaten with a belt- BUT MY BROTHER JUST GETS YELLED AT! When I was 10 like Jacob is now, I got slapped to death but he dont >.< Im only lucky to get to use the Home Computer because I have nothing better to do, and my parents know that. I only spend time either- 1: At School 2: In my room 3: Using the Computer

Hi MeowBark,

I think you're being abused by what I'm hearing. Your parents have abosoultly NO RIGHT to hit you more than once for no reason. You parents are being sexist by treating your brother better than you. You deserve the same treatment as your brother, be it Nice or Normal. Your parents have NO RIGHT to treat your brother better than you. We girls have equal rights, and we girls deserve to be treated right. Girls are not inferior and Boys are not superior. Boys and Girls are eye to eye. Call 1-800-4-A-CHILD if your parents are abusing you badl and you need help.

Your Friend,

Camelle.

 

[meowbark]

I told my mom that, and my dad just smirked. I didnt think it was from my sunburn either (ouch >.&lt Since my mom rarely even touches me the case would be against my dad. But since my parents KNOW I only use the phone to talk to my friends and they know I cant call one of my friends- and I dont know the others number *She calls here* They would ask who Im calling (Thanks to their cheapness I am not allowd a cellphone like normal kids my age!) and if I lied my dad would check the Comcast voicemail thing (On his email) and Ill be in the greatest trouble in the world >.< I think as soon as my mom learns to drive she will divorce my dad and gain custody of me, I even heard my dad say that. And since my mom only makes money from my dad driving her to Target-and I only make it to Girl Scouts because of him.

So if I did call this helpline thing, and he went to jail. How could my mom make a living, how would we go places, and how would we live? (2 boys, 1 girl, 1 Dad, 1 Mom. Tough enough for my mom) How would I like get home early? (I refuse to ride the Acticity bus after swim meets-not home till late. I ride to schoolbus in the morning, I would in the afternoon if it werent for school activities)

I wish someone would understand my dads a old fart who claims to have a life, though he doesnt.

 

[Skippy~Tama]

I agree, none of that is remotely fair to you! I'm really sorry about how you get treated. I really do hope things begin to get better for you.

The fact that you and only you get hit with a belt and "slapped to a pulp" is unfair to you and can be considered Child Abuse if it rises to a higher level.

 

[lil*kitty*kat]

I'm not being rude, but this is kind of attention seeking because we always get teh same information (a.k.a. your dad did this to you, your dad did that) and everyone gives you the same advice "This is child abuse, call this number" "Tell someone" and you always tell everyone "I can't tell noone or call child help lines because of this and that...

Please don't get angry at this reply

 

[Sweet Kandi]

I'm not being rude, but this is kind of attention seeking because we always get teh same information (a.k.a. your dad did this to you, your dad did that) and everyone gives you the same advice "This is child abuse, call this number" "Tell someone" and you always tell everyone "I can't tell noone or call child help lines because of this and that...
Please don't get angry at this reply

I have to agree with you. Every week or so you make a new topic about how mean your dad is or how you're being hit, but you're never willing to do anything about it.

Also, topics about child abuse and attention seeking topics aren't allowed.

 

[lil*kitty*kat]

Please quit making topics like this if you're not going to take the advice.

 

[tamakitty710]

The abuse is bad, but I agree with Sweet Kandi and lil*kitty*kat, abuse topics aren't allowed. But your dad (I guess) is also being a bit sexist by not slapping your brother(s) and slapping you instead... That's just not right! And I hope things will get better for you, too...

♪~tk710

 

[TigerLily013]

I have to agree with you. Every week or so you make a new topic about how mean your dad is or how you're being hit, but you're never willing to do anything about it.
Also, topics about child abuse and attention seeking topics aren't allowed.

Seconded or thirded in this case.

I feel like I'm reading a weekly digest you put out every week on how much bother you go through about your father, and it seems like its 90% of him. I really wouldn't be shocked if this stuff was overexagerated to a degree.

Is there nothing else you have to talk about?

 

[tamaw/pants]

I'm not being rude, but this is kind of attention seeking because we always get teh same information (a.k.a. your dad did this to you, your dad did that) and everyone gives you the same advice "This is child abuse, call this number" "Tell someone" and you always tell everyone "I can't tell noone or call child help lines because of this and that...
Please don't get angry at this reply

I actualy do have to agree.

If you truly had issues, you would be living IN TOTAL AND COMPLETE FEAR.

I think you don't truly understand the whole abuse issue.

There's a difference from abuse and punishment.

If you were serioulsy being abused, you wouldn't be complaining about it on here.

Sorry, it just seams more like a whiny complaint that serious.

If you need help, go to your conselor.

She/he can help you sort things out.

 

[*santagotchi*]

I told my mom that, and my dad just smirked. I didnt think it was from my sunburn either (ouch >.&lt Since my mom rarely even touches me the case would be against my dad. But since my parents KNOW I only use the phone to talk to my friends and they know I cant call one of my friends- and I dont know the others number *She calls here* They would ask who Im calling (Thanks to their cheapness I am not allowd a cellphone like normal kids my age!) and if I lied my dad would check the Comcast voicemail thing (On his email) and Ill be in the greatest trouble in the world >.< I think as soon as my mom learns to drive she will divorce my dad and gain custody of me, I even heard my dad say that. And since my mom only makes money from my dad driving her to Target-and I only make it to Girl Scouts because of him.
So if I did call this helpline thing, and he went to jail. How could my mom make a living, how would we go places, and how would we live? (2 boys, 1 girl, 1 Dad, 1 Mom. Tough enough for my mom) How would I like get home early? (I refuse to ride the Acticity bus after swim meets-not home till late. I ride to schoolbus in the morning, I would in the afternoon if it werent for school activities)

I wish someone would understand my dads a old fart who claims to have a life, though he doesnt.

Hi Karen,

Well, I still suggest you talk to a school councillor about this. The number I gave you was only for an emergency and you parents were abusing you so badly you need help. When you talk to your school councillor, s/he will do the best s/he can to help you. S/he may call yourparents to the school so they can talk this over.

Best wishes,

Camelle.

 

[CuteDancingBailey]

I'm not being rude, but this is kind of attention seeking because we always get teh same information (a.k.a. your dad did this to you, your dad did that) and everyone gives you the same advice "This is child abuse, call this number" "Tell someone" and you always tell everyone "I can't tell noone or call child help lines because of this and that...
Please don't get angry at this reply

I'm agreeing with this, just like half the people who replied.

Heh, I also feel like I'm reading a weekly digest on it.

 

[SUPER_GOTCHI]

one: not to be a jerk, but you do kinda post the same topic over and over

two: the other people on here might not understand your problems, since they arent abused themselves

three: i agree with santagotchi, you should tell a teacher/counsellor and if you cant do that, tell a friends parent or another adult

 

[tamaw/pants]

two: the other people on here might not understand your problems, since they arent abused themselves

You have no idea.

I have not been abused but just because someone doesn't mention they have been abused, doesn't mean they haven't

Please don't jump to conclusions!

 

[lil*kitty*kat]

BTW, what is an air gun?

 

[tamaw/pants]

BTW, what is an air gun?

Maybe airsoft gun?

I'm not too sure.

Actualy, there ARE guns that shoot out air.

They're really wierd.

I don't know which she is talking about though.

 

[Sakura3200]

BTW, what is an air gun?

its like a hand gun but it shoot blastic Bibi's

 

[*~Jess~*]

The first verse of the peom "Today" (author unknown) reads:

I woke up early this morning, excited over what I get to do before the clock strikes midnight.

I have responsibilities to fulfil today.

I am important.

The 6th verse says:

Today I can lement over all that my parents didn't give me while I was growing up or...

I can be grateful they gave me the gift of life.

Your parents love you no matter what they may do to you. Why would anyone have a child and purposly hate him/her?