OH MY...................

[born_naturalfigureskater122]

My boyfriend just broke up with me!!!!! I CAN'T BELEIVE IT! just yesterday he was saing how much he loved me and now HE HATES ME!!!!!!!!! What did I do wrong????????? I need someone to talk to!!!!

 

[Nummy]

lol@middle school relationships.

 

[Skippy~Tama]

Its OK... People like that, that just decide to break up on the spot for an unkown reason, come and go. I'm sure you'll find someone else. You can talk to me whenever you feel like it, if you like?

 

[tamakitty710]

You deserve better than that! On again off again people don't make good friends, and they make even WORSE boyfriends. There are plenty of other fish in the sea! Remember that!

 

[born_naturalfigureskater122]

Well on friday at school he tried to kiss me and I said no. And then he was pretty much to himself the rest of the day. I mean yeah we held hands and hugged eachother good bye after school and stuff but then he tried to kiss me and I just wasn't ready for that yet!!!!!! Should I of let him kiss me?

 

[tamakitty710]

Well on friday at school he tried to kiss me and I said no. And then he was pretty much to himself the rest of the day. I mean yeah we held hands and hugged eachother good bye after school and stuff but then he tried to kiss me and I just wasn't ready for that yet!!!!!! Should I of let him kiss me?

No. If you are feeling rushed, then don't do anything you don't want to do. If he can understand that, then that is good. But if he breaks up for you because you aren't ready to kiss, then it's not your fault. Don't worry about that. Don't rush into anything that you don't feel comfortable doing

 

[Skippy~Tama]

No. If you are feeling rushed, then don't do anything you don't want to do. If he can understand that, then that is good. But if he breaks up for you because you aren't ready to kiss, then it's not your fault. Don't worry about that. Don't rush into anything that you don't feel comfortable doing

Wow! You took the words right out of my mouth!

If you don't feel comfortable, remember: He can't push you into doing anything. It was the absolute right thing to do if you didn't feel ready; Go with your gut instinct!

 

[born_naturalfigureskater122]

Thanks you too!!!! But he was a great guy he was nice to me and that is what hurts!

 

[Skippy~Tama]

Yeah, it must. You really liked him, didn't you? If he was nice and respected you, but didn't expect too much of you, then I would be depressed too... But you'll move on, or maybe you could talk to him and ask him why? I don't know, I've never been through your situation before.

 

[Sweet Kandi]

lol@middle school relationships.

Much agreement over here. ♥

 

[tamakitty710]

Well, things like this happen. But if he rushed you into things, then maybe he wasn't as nice as you thought. He might have acted nice just to impress you, and when he finally got you, he thought he had you under his control. People can manipulate other people just to hurt them. And deep down inside: those people aren't nice! Maybe try finding a boy who is the same readiness as you are to be in a relationship. If the boy is ready to kiss but you aren't, it might be trouble. But if the boy isn't ready to kiss and you aren't either, than you can develop that trust together. But you'll get over it! Don't worry so much. Take your mind off of the situation!

 

[born_naturalfigureskater122]

Yes I LOVED HIM!!!!!! but who knows maybe I'll find a boy I like on here!!!! You never ever know! Should I call and ask him why he broke up with me right now?

 

[meowbark]

It's normal. I dont "date" boy's yet. Mainly for this reason, I wait for the right boy. Which I havent found yet. lol

It's ok, you'll forget about this soon

 

[Skippy~Tama]

I think maybe you should call him up right now and ask him, because you have the full right to know! Well, that;s just what i think, anyways.

 

[tamakitty710]

Yes I LOVED HIM!!!!!! but who knows maybe I'll find a boy I like on here!!!! You never ever know! Should I call and ask him why he broke up with me right now?

Hmm... If you feel comfortable doing it, then go for it! But if you feel that you might get hurt more, then don't.

 

[born_naturalfigureskater122]

Okay here it goes.....

 

[Skippy~Tama]

So... How did it go? Did he tell you? Hope I'm not intruding on too much of your personal life or anything...

 

[mimichi7]

My parents won't let me date but if a guy asked me out and I realy liked him and we knew each other they would probably let up.

As for finding a uy on TT that's not safe to do.

-mimichi7 =)

 

[tamakitty710]

She's prolly still talking to him :3 Give her some time. HMMMM I wonder what they're saying! (I'm such a snoop |3)

 

[born_naturalfigureskater122]

lol no it is okay I will tell you too everything well mainly all of tamatalk but anyway, first his mom picked up the phone and I said hi is Josh there? and so the she gave him the phone. Then at first I hesitated a lil but then I asked him why did you break up with me? He said because "I was ready to move up in the relationship and you weren't so therefor I thought you weren't interested." Then I said "Well I wasn't ready and that should be good enough for you but I guess I was wrong." Then he gave me the whole it's not you it's me speech. I just can't beleive him.