(Nix 666's big sister) My boyfriend...

[Nix666]

Well, a week ago after school, my boyfriend (Call him C) hugged me and said, "Sorry, but things aren't working out..." and left with this other girl. (let's call her H) I was really upset, because we'd been going out since 2 years ago... The next day we went to school together, but he didn't talk to me (because we get a lift to school with my mum then walk home.) and he was going around, with H avoiding me. This went on for 5 days, then me and my best friend(Let's call her G) were going to the cinema, and C&H were there together. G&H are friends so she sat beside H, leaving me beside C. He said "I've got to go to the bathroom..." and took me with him. He said that he still loved me. I said that he didn't so he walked away and I ran into the bathroom. When I went back I sat beside him and we didn't talk. So today at school he stayed away from me and H. G said that C did love me but went with H for popularity.

So, should I go with him? Or go with D who likes me and is my best friend?

 

[Digi450]

if a person truely loves u they won;t dunp you for popularity issues. if he truely wanted you he wouldn't be with H

 

[Nix666]

Yeah, but C is on MSN now, and she says that H blackmailed him because she had pictures of him in a dress that he had done for a play...

 

[whittigerx4494]

ya right he's lieing to u it simpel y would he where a dress even if it was 4 a play

 

[Nix666]

Because unlike some boys, he'd do that.

 

[whittigerx4494]

.................................. why.....................................eww?............ idon't know ..............................................................................

 

[whittigerx4494]

ok so u like him and he claims to like u

 

[Nix666]

Yes I like him, but I don't know if he's using me...

 

[tamaw/pants]

if a person truely loves u they won;t dunp you for popularity issues. if he truely wanted you he wouldn't be with H

Ditto.

Don't go back with him.

If he dumped you to date someother girl for popularity, he's a jerk who doesn't deserve you- or anyone for that matter if he has that kind of attitude.

 

[whittigerx4494]

yep and y would he where a dress

 

[Nix666]

HE WAS IN A PLAY!

 

[dondiasco]

yep and y would he where a dress

It really isn't that weird for a man to dress as a woman - in a play or out.

I don't see why he would have been blackmailed by these photos - if he had volunteered to wear the dress, I don't understand why he would have minded.

I think he sounds like bad news, but of course, the decision is up to you.

 

[whittigerx4494]

ok but my opinon is its weird

 

[It's Tina!]

Trying to be popular is a waste of C's time. Because he won't like being with H, he'll like being with you. C doesn't like H, so why be with her? Being happy and yourself is all C needs. Happiness for C is being with you.

 

[yogigirl]

Yeah, but C is on MSN now, and she says that H blackmailed him because she had pictures of him in a dress that he had done for a play...

what is c msn

 

[yogigirl]

what is c msn

 

[Nix666]

He didn't volunteer to wear it,he got nominated by his friends.

I think I will go with C again because he did love me for me before, when D only liked me when I got my hair highlighted.

 

[whittigerx4494]

oooooooook

 

[born_naturalfigureskater122]

GO W/ D!!!! GO W/ D!!! GO W/ D!!!!! C is just a jerk if he dumped you for popularity! So I say GO WITH D!! lol!

 

[Lily12]

Sorry if this isn't helping but you just got out of a relationship. I think you need time to be alone to think about if you should start dating again. When you're ready go with you one you really love.