new kid

[cornchips]

Theres a new girl at school her name is Carol she is a realy big bum she shouts at the teacher and has already got detention but at play time she sits on the step all alone and pepole tease her it's strange in class and lunch she is rude, stuck up and is a bum but at play she dosen't sick up for herself should I be nice or be mean I realy need advice PLEASE!!!! ^_^

 

[Sweet Kandi]

In my opinion, if she's mean, just don't go around her.

Don't be mean, don't be friendly. Just leave her alone.

If she approches you just be nice.

 

[Lily12]

I think she wants friends that's why she is mean. Maybe she is trying to get attention to herself so people can notice her and like her. But if you don't wanna get involved don't.

 

[!Purrfect*Kitty!]

Thats like a girl who moved to my school in September her name was Sophie she ws always rude but outside she wouldent hurt a fly she was a gentle and as kind as anybody else.Just try to be friends with her.

Emily

 

[Kelly_Clarkson8]

Maybe she is trying to appear "tough" Because she is new to your school and wants friends?

Just leave her, unless she talks to you dont be like "HI CAROL! WANNA PLAY A GAME!!!??" instead say "Hi" and smile.

Maybe she will turn out nice? Give her a chance.

 

[tenniswinner]

I was in a similar situation.

There was this girl and she was new to our school, and I guess we could say she was trying too hard to make friends. She was bossing everyone around and all. So me and my friends complained to out teacher, and she got talked to in the hall. We all tried to be nice, but it just went to waste.

This girl may be lonely or be having some problems at home. Welcome her to your school, maybe show her around and find some common ground. If she starts being rude to you, then just ignore her and be on your way.

 

[GotchiGirl96]

Maybe she's just a bully because she doesn't have any friends. If you don't want to get involved you don't have to. But I think all she needs is a friend and she wouldn't seem like such a meanie. If you want, go over to her at play time and ask if she wants to play with you and your friends and just be friendly to her. Good luck.

 

[Peatrolover22]

Theres a new girl at school her name is Carol she is a realy big bum she shouts at the teacher and has already got detention but at play time she sits on the step all alone and pepole tease her it's strange in class and lunch she is rude, stuck up and is a bum but at play she dosen't sick up for herself should I be nice or be mean I realy need advice PLEASE!!!!

well mabey she's mean cause she dosent have any friends

NOW im not telling u that u should not stand up 4 ur self but

i think u should be nice to her

 

[Sportschick1994]

This new girl is probably trying to get noticed.Maybe she is just sad because she had to leave things behind.If she is truely rude all of the time,don't talk to her and start a conversation like"Hi,Carol.Wanna sit with us".Even if you are trying to be nice,if she says something just say"Hello"then say no or yes.If she acts nice and kind when she is by herself try to leave her alone.Maybe she will make friends who like her for her.

 

[sapertws]

I think you should just ignore her.

You don't have to go up to her and be all friendly.

But you don't have to tease her either.

there's this girl in MY class that is mean, too.

She likes me, but no one likes her that much.

All I do is ignore her.

She doesn't think I hate her so

You should just ignore Carol!!!

 

[Tamagirl_Desy]

Seems to me she's trying to appear as 'tough' and 'independent'. More than likely, she's just a lonely girl with no friends who is crying on the inside.

Now, what should YOU do? My suggestion is maybe offering to be her friend. Don't go up to her and say, "HI HOW ARE YA TODAY! WANNA BE PALS AND PLAY WITH ME??? WANNA??" because this is NOT the best way to approach a sensitive person. Say, "Hi. I'm (name here)!" and smile. Always tell the person your name before starting up a big conversation. Then say, "I've seen you around. Would you like to play with me next recess?". If she declines, then just shrug and say, "Alright. I was only wondering." Chances are, she'll say no. But you gotta accept that. This is probably what she'd say: "I don't need any friends!" or something along that line. If she says this or anything similar, don't throw a temper tantrum.

Be nice. Have a little patience. If you absolutly not get through to her, then so be it.

*Tgd*