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[Peatrolover22]

ok TT ppl i need ur help!

ok my friend likes his guy,

this guy like,is mean to me!

and i told this grl that i waz mad,

and she waz standen up 4 him and every thing

so i got mad and said....

"WHO DO U PICK HIM OR ME?I THOUGH 4 SURE U WOULD STAND UP 4 ME!"

so im not really her friend anymore,

what should i do!

[SIZE=21pt]Help![/SIZE]

 

[Peatrolover22]

HELLO!!

SOMEONE PPLLEEAASSEE HELP ME

 

[Tamagirl_Desy]

Hi Peatrolover22,

I don't know if this is the advice/answer you were hoping for but........here it goes:

Your friend (like yourself) is going up and getting different feelings. Hormones kick in, and the body changes. During these changes (and after them too), people start feeling a special way for somebody. And for your friend; it happens to be somebody who's mean to you. I can see why you want her NOT to like this guy, but you can't really control your friend; can you? She's going through those stages, and the special feeling has taken over. It happens alot, and you can't stop it.

It's natural for her to stick up for somebody she fancies, but she should feel ashamed that she didn't even consider you for a moment. Alot of times, boys can ruin a friendship between girls.

Konw what I suggest? If you want to still be her friend, then only hang out with her when that guy isn't around. That way, he can't interferre with your friendship. Keep this in mind: Friendship lasts longer than love. Your friend is still young and has tons of time for relationships, and young love hardly ever works out. That guy will get bored of your friend sooner or later, or vise versa. Your friend will come around when she's ready.

As I mentioned before, your friend is going through changes and her feelings are developing too. Guys often take priority in a girls life, and she may not realize she's ruining a friendship.

Remember to always comfort your frined if things don't work out. You may feel angry at her; but don't let this guy mess up your friendship. It's not worth it.

*Tgd*

 

[Peatrolover22]

i no,

but still

 

[tamaw/pants]

i answered you on AIM. lol

actualy, i'm talking to you right now!

it would be no point in writing it again, so yeah...

 

[hypergurl]

hi, I read what happened, and alot of people say that really good friends keep there old ones instead of a boy, but I think you should be nice to her 'cause she'll probably get over him soon.

 

[Sweet Kandi]

You're mad at your friend for doing what she wants. She likes a guy you don't like and suddenly it's your business to tell her to choose you or him?

If a friend of mine ever did that to me, I'd choose the other person too.

If you were really her friend you wouldn't make her choose between you two. You'd suck up your immature problems with him and be supportive of her in her decision. It's not your place to tell her she can't be with him. It's her life. Let her live it how she wants and stop with the 'zomg choose!' crap.

 

[hypergurl]

You're mad at your friend for doing what she wants. She likes a guy you don't like and suddenly it's your business to tell her to choose you or him?
If a friend of mine ever did that to me, I'd choose the other person too.

If you were really her friend you wouldn't make her choose between you to. You'd suck up your immature problems with him and be supportive of her in her decision. It's not your place to tell her she can't be with him. It's her life. Let her live it how she wants and stop with the 'zomg choose!' crap.

hey thats good advice.