I'm in quite a pickle at school...

[tenniswinner]

The phrase at the top simply means that I'm in a lot of trouble.

First off, my 3 friends that were incredibly close are drifting away from me now. This may be an immature story, but I'm not used to these things happening so I tend to overexaggerate my feelings. Well, let's call my friends K, H and K2. In the beginning of the school year, me, K, and K2 were best friends. And I mean BEST friends. Then, for a project, (still in the beginning of the year), I was paired up with H. She came over to my house to work on our speech, and while we were working, we chatted. She said, "K thinks she's my best friend, but she's just a friend to me." K was getting attached to H lately, I thought to myself. So then, about a week or two later, H and K become best buds. Like BEST buds. They were partners for everything, glued to eachother sides, and excluding me! If I would ask, "Hey, can I be your partner?" I would always get, "No, I'm with H." Or, "No, I'm with K." Good grief! I was treated like a reject! It was just K and H, K and H, K and H! Everywhere I looked, there they were! This went on for a really long period of time. And then, just maybe this week, they abduct K2 into their little clan. Same thing happened except, "No, I'm with H and K2." Or, "No, I'm with K and K2." Etc.! My goodness! I was getting irritated. So in gym, we're doing a jump rope routine. We were allowed in groups up to 5. That's right, 5. So I approach K, H, and K2, who had formed a group of 3. I ask, "Can I be in your group? " And they say, "No, it's us 3. You can go with them." And she pointed to my 3 other best friends! I frown and walk away. What's wrong with me? Do I smell? I did not do anything wrong to them. So then, we needed to get in groups of 3 for our excercises. I stand with my other best friend, and H, K, and K2 get in a group. Then my friend D stands with them. K2 wanted to come with us, and then K says to K2, "No, you're staying!" And she turns to D and says, "We're a group of 3. They are a group of 2. (points to us) Go over there!" And K2 got there after D! HOW RUDE! In class, they sit together now. They'll be sitting like that the whole 9 weeks. Right next to my table. Oh joy. And I told all my other friends that I didn't do anything and they're mad at me, and they were like "Why would they be mad?!" So I have a whole team of friends backing up for me now. But today... they exploded. They wanted me to sit with them at science. I said I wanted to sit with my other friends, because I sat with H, K, and K2 the previous time. The class period starts, and they start whispering about me. They start glaring. So then I asked them after class, "Are you mad at me?" And they're like, "no..." And I say, "Why were you whispering 'bout me?" And they say, "We weren't!" "Yeah, you were!" "BLEIEVE WHAT YOU WANT! (walks away)" They were, and I could hear them talking about me. They were saying that I was mad at them, when I never even did anything. They said a whole bunch of other stuff too. And they've been asking me all day, "Are you mad at me?" And I'd reply like a whimp, "No..." It was true, I wasn't, but I kinda was... I'm just not sure what to do.

The other thing is that these boys on the bus who sit behind us are really bad. They swear and talk about inappropriate things, and draw inappropriate things on the window. So me and my friend told on them, and she said they're going to the office on Tuesday (we have Monday off)! I'm a bit nervous about if I'm going to the office to tell the princaple what happened, and how the boys will react to me... and if they'll hate me and start saying stuff about us...

Sorry that I typed a lot,

 

[Warriorscats]

The phrase at the top simply means that I'm in a lot of trouble.
First off, my 3 friends that were incredibly close are drifting away from me now. This may be an immature story, but I'm not used to these things happening so I tend to overexaggerate my feelings. Well, let's call my friends K, H and K2. In the beginning of the school year, me, K, and K2 were best friends. And I mean BEST friends. Then, for a project, (still in the beginning of the year), I was paired up with H. She came over to my house to work on our speech, and while we were working, we chatted. She said, "K thinks she's my best friend, but she's just a friend to me." K was getting attached to H lately, I thought to myself. So then, about a week or two later, H and K become best buds. Like BEST buds. They were partners for everything, glued to eachother sides, and excluding me! If I would ask, "Hey, can I be your partner?" I would always get, "No, I'm with H." Or, "No, I'm with K." Good grief! I was treated like a reject! It was just K and H, K and H, K and H! Everywhere I looked, there they were! This went on for a really long period of time. And then, just maybe this week, they abduct K2 into their little clan. Same thing happened except, "No, I'm with H and K2." Or, "No, I'm with K and K2." Etc.! My goodness! I was getting irritated. So in gym, we're doing a jump rope routine. We were allowed in groups up to 5. That's right, 5. So I approach K, H, and K2, who had formed a group of 3. I ask, "Can I be in your group? " And they say, "No, it's us 3. You can go with them." And she pointed to my 3 other best friends! I frown and walk away. What's wrong with me? Do I smell? I did not do anything wrong to them. So then, we needed to get in groups of 3 for our excercises. I stand with my other best friend, and H, K, and K2 get in a group. Then my friend D stands with them. K2 wanted to come with us, and then K says to K2, "No, you're staying!" And she turns to D and says, "We're a group of 3. They are a group of 2. (points to us) Go over there!" And K2 got there after D! HOW RUDE! In class, they sit together now. They'll be sitting like that the whole 9 weeks. Right next to my table. Oh joy. And I told all my other friends that I didn't do anything and they're mad at me, and they were like "Why would they be mad?!" So I have a whole team of friends backing up for me now. But today... they exploded. They wanted me to sit with them at science. I said I wanted to sit with my other friends, because I sat with H, K, and K2 the previous time. The class period starts, and they start whispering about me. They start glaring. So then I asked them after class, "Are you mad at me?" And they're like, "no..." And I say, "Why were you whispering 'bout me?" And they say, "We weren't!" "Yeah, you were!" "BLEIEVE WHAT YOU WANT! (walks away)" They were, and I could hear them talking about me. They were saying that I was mad at them, when I never even did anything. They said a whole bunch of other stuff too. And they've been asking me all day, "Are you mad at me?" And I'd reply like a whimp, "No..." It was true, I wasn't, but I kinda was... I'm just not sure what to do.

The other thing is that these boys on the bus who sit behind us are really bad. They swear and talk about inappropriate things, and draw inappropriate things on the window. So me and my friend told on them, and she said they're going to the office on Tuesday (we have Monday off)! I'm a bit nervous about if I'm going to the office to tell the princaple what happened, and how the boys will react to me... and if they'll hate me and start saying stuff about us...

Sorry that I typed a lot,

If your friends are being like that to you I wouldn't hang out with them (That's my oppinion) for one thing, In gym when you were sopposed to be in a group of 5 and they only had three, when you asked them if you could be in their group they should of said yes. If they were your friends they would have asked you to be in their group as soon as they got together. Another thing is, Why don't you just talk to them about what has been happening and tell them your feelings? All you have to do is ask them why they aren't wanting to hang out with you and why they did all of those things to you. If you can get things all sorted out then everyone will be happy again!

ps: I hoped that I helped!

 

[tenniswinner]

Thanks! I tried talking to them, but all I got was, "You're just jealous!"

It's hard, because they're everywhere you look...

 

[tamaluver977]

Maybe when they say that, you can say "why don't you like me anymorw? Did i upset you? I just wanna be friends again!".

 

[funsychloe]

Just kick them! Or annoy them until thy kill you!

 

[Warriorscats]

Just kick them! Or annoy them until thy kill you!

lolz! I don't think that she should kick them! (but it is pretty funny!) Because then she would get in MAJOR trouble! (I don't think that I spelled major right.....)

 

[tenniswinner]

Oh my, I wouldn't kick them, lol!

I would get suspended for that.

Annoying wouldn't be a good idea - it'll be like getting back at them.

I probably wouldn't get to annoy them, anyways, because they wouldn't want to talk to me.

 

[Angelgotchi11]

Well they aren't really your friends I guess.

 

[love4tamas]

I feel your pain,

I had a group of friends like that.

At first they like hated each other,

and both didn't want me to be friends with the other one.

they made fun of each other behind their backs.. and i know because they were talking about each other to me.

So one friend, lets call her B, hates me becuase I was best friends with her best friend and she wanted me to back off. Of course, she was my BEST friend and I said no, and my best friend agreed. She got mad and stole my other best friend that she used to hate.

Anyway..back to the main part.. that was just a little introduction thing so you understand where im at.

So now B and one of my best friends are like best friends. B was always fighting with me over little tiny details and we both hated each other. ANd then one day, she and B started hanging out a lot together and B was telling her all these lies about me behind my back to make her hate me. When ever I am with them, I feel like I don't belong. They even talk about me right infront of my face. I just said, "you know what?! I'm sick of you 2 treating me like this! I am a human being and I do not deserve to be treated like this! You used to be my best friends! And now you hate me just because of your "little group" that you think is SOOOOOOOO much cooler than me! Popularity is nothing! And you have 20 friends on your myspace while I have 300 so stop it okay? And don't say im ugly becuase I get more boys than you and your 400 pounds and are so lonely. [no offense].

Now im not saying say something like this, i only said that because they have been treating me like this for a while. But i guess what im trying to say is, they are not going to stop treating you like this, and if they do, don't forgive them because that was a long time you had to spend of your life being sad and confused. If they treat you like that, then just don't be their friends. You don't deserve to be treated like that. One day, they are going to realize that they made a huge mistake, but it's going to be too late

Best of Luck,

Love4tamas

 

[Miss Matchmaker]

I had a little problem the other day, too. It wasn't that dramatic, but we didn't talk as much as we usually did. Okay. I went on a HUGE overnight field trip. I stupidly lost $20 that night. I dropped it....somewhere. My teacher and a worker look all over 2 find it-but it was gone. So, I go complain all day 2 my BFF since preschool like ALL day-I'll call her BFF. She said she was so sorry. So, the next day, I couldn't buy anything from the giftshop and I had the nasty school, provided lunch instead of pizza and ice cream at the cafe'. I was so sad. It ruined my whole feild trip. So after school, our assistant principal took all the overnight kids into the hallway and asked if anyone found my money. Everyone looked at me like I was so stupid. Like How could I lose $20? they stared. He said if you didn't turn yourself in, that you'd get suspended. Then, my BFF said that she found the money. "What did you do with it?" he asked. She spent it. Today, she paid me back. But all she did was say she was sorry. She invited me 2 her party the weekend before, my dad doesn't like her either, and I'm in quite a pickle myself.

For your advice, I say make sure you spend more time with them. Get started talking an something you all like. If they completely refuse 2 talk, talk about something they don't like or just try to get your other friends back.

Best uv luck,

Matchy

 

[tamaw/pants]

The other thing is that these boys on the bus who sit behind us are really bad. They swear and talk about inappropriate things, and draw inappropriate things on the window. So me and my friend told on them, and she said they're going to the office on Tuesday (we have Monday off)! I'm a bit nervous about if I'm going to the office to tell the princaple what happened, and how the boys will react to me... and if they'll hate me and start saying stuff about us...

wow, welcome to my world,

crazy, they cuss, say.. er... stuff, and draw on the window too >.<

ironic.

unfortuantly i'm used to it now X.<

anyways, wow, i hate when people do this kind of thing.

i sometimes feel kinda like this.

it seems that when i have more than one friend together with me, they kinda gang up on me x.<

i dunno why, but its always 2 against 1.

o well, anyways, 'nuf bout me.

well, talk to them.

yes, i'm sure you've heard this over and over again, but if you really falue their friendship thats what you need to do.

tell them what your feeling- that you feel left out, and such.

dont blow up on them, but calmy explain to them.

if they're really your friends, they quit- they might not even realize they're doing that and its hurting you, sometimes you just dont know.

if they get all rude or keep acting like this, i think its time to let go and go with your other friends- they arent worth your time.