Hi kiwistrawberry94
Welcome to TamaTalk!
Hope you enjoy your visits to the site. There's lots of good info and fun stuff here - just look through the different sections - it doesn't take long to find your way around, but if you have any questions or problems just PM me!
Tama's grow as follows (including sleep time):
Babies 1hr
Child/Toddler 24hrs
Teen 72hrs
Adult - varies depending on matchmaker.
If you keep your Tama on PAUSE then it won't grow. Perhaps that is what is wrong?
Best, etc.
TamaMum