I'm afraid the forums are not the place to start 'chatting' threads.
You can chat back and forth in private via the PM system. Using Personal Mssgs keeps the forums free for Tama info and a wider audience - rather than personal one to one stuff.
Please feel free to PM HorseGrl if you want to talk with her!
Or you can use the site's chat room (TamaChat) open at weekends.
I hope you all understand why I am therefore closing this topic