help!FRIEND DRAMA HELP!

[blue_husky]

help me my friends are falling apart!!!!emily is haveing a mager mood swing and she is being rude to ruby.all of a sudden emily asks ruby if she likes heater.ruby said that she likes heater but she gets on my nerves onece in a wile.emily thinks thats kina rude.so she says you have to think befor u speek in big font(over IM).ruby thinks that emily hates her.i was iming bolth of them and emily was relly pi**ed and told me to f*** off.i was shocked and pritty calm so i said why are you takeing it out on me and ruby.then she lost it she toldlly went bananas.she was makeing ruby and me missribile.then she asked if ruby if she wanted erins IM so ruby said no.emily asked why ruby said i dont like erin she is annoying.emily said just because you dont like someone dosnt meen you have to say mean things about them.ruby thought emily ment erin micles(pian in the butt).emily ment erin miclain.ther names sound alike. so im stuck in the middle of this i hate drama and ppl crying i cant handle that stuff.now we dont know what to do.i dont want to lose this frendship it is the ownley one i have.i'v lost a friend and now i never see him and its not because of drama we just got seperated form elimentrie school and high scool.i dont want to lose them too all my other friend live far away of out of state.pleaz post help for me!!!!!!!

friends:

ruby

emily

heather

 

[Fruit_frappae]

I kinda know how u feel. I guess I can kinda help u if this seems like your problem....I have my friends, Anna, Abigail, and Hannah. Anna did something mean and i told her that was mean and do not do it again, then Anna apoligiezed( i think). Then, i gave Anna a second chance but Hannah and Abigail are not really. They feel absoulutly misrable around Anna and hate her! They keeep on complaining 2 me how rude Anna is, and Anna keeps complaining how rude they are and asks why they are being mean! iT IS SOOOOO HARD AND CONFUSING!

advice- They are just getting in a little fight. that happened with me all the time. But, the problem is, I donn't know exatly how severe it is! So, if it is not severe they will get over it. But if it is super severe like my problem, do not take sides cause the other friend is gonna get mad at u and don't lie either cause if they figure out.. uh.. bothe of them will be mad at you. Just, try to break it out and try to make sense of it on how it is not right to do this and move on. After all, my fav saying: Forgive, forget, and move on! That way, there will not be a big mess! If that does not work, then tell Emily you miss the old her and want the old her back, not this meanie. And, 2 the others it is gonna be ok. Otherwise, I would talk 2 my parents about that because they probably had this expereince and know what to do.

 

[tamaw/pants]

Erm wow. O.O;;;

Sounds like these people just need to chill.

We all have our tense days, and although it doesn't exscuse us from them, the best thing to do right now it to just let it blow over, then forgive and forget.

Maybe AFTER everything is all good, you could talk to your friends about getting mad at each other. [Don't talk about it BEFORE you guys are totaly good, that just makes it worse!] Tell her if she is feeling tick-y and might get mad at you to let you know before hand.

That can save alot of hurt feelings. ;]

Good luck with your friends!

 

[babygotchi]

i think i know how u feel.if my friends are mad each other they tell me to tell the other friend stuff.i think u need to talk to them.see wat's happening in their lives.

 

[Ruby_Red_Robin]

help me my friends are falling apart!!!!emily is haveing a mager mood swing and she is being rude to ruby.all of a sudden emily asks ruby if she likes heater.ruby said that she likes heater but she gets on my nerves onece in a wile.emily thinks thats kina rude.so she says you have to think befor u speek in big font(over IM).ruby thinks that emily hates her.i was iming bolth of them and emily was relly pi**ed and told me to f*** off.i was shocked and pritty calm so i said why are you takeing it out on me and ruby.then she lost it she toldlly went bananas.she was makeing ruby and me missribile.then she asked if ruby if she wanted erins IM so ruby said no.emily asked why ruby said i dont like erin she is annoying.emily said just because you dont like someone dosnt meen you have to say mean things about them.ruby thought emily ment erin micles(pian in the butt).emily ment erin miclain.ther names sound alike. so im stuck in the middle of this i hate drama and ppl crying i cant handle that stuff.now we dont know what to do.i dont want to lose this frendship it is the ownley one i have.i'v lost a friend and now i never see him and its not because of drama we just got seperated form elimentrie school and high scool.i dont want to lose them too all my other friend live far away of out of state.pleaz post help for me!!!!!!!
friends:

ruby

emily

heather

Yes, plz save our friendship!!!!! We need major help!!!

 

[Ruby_Red_Robin]

I talked to Emily and she just thought I was trying to get back at her for what she said to me. I'm not. REALLY not. HELP US!!!

~Ruby~

 

[Fruit_frappae]

read my post it may give advice. So, will the others!

 

[Chic!]

Erm wow. O.O;;;Sounds like these people just need to chill.

We all have our tense days, and although it doesn't exscuse us from them, the best thing to do right now it to just let it blow over, then forgive and forget.

Maybe AFTER everything is all good, you could talk to your friends about getting mad at each other. [Don't talk about it BEFORE you guys are totaly good, that just makes it worse!] Tell her if she is feeling tick-y and might get mad at you to let you know before hand.

That can save alot of hurt feelings. ;]

Good luck with your friends!

Yes we do have our tense days and our happy ones too. I think it is quiet normal in everyway, for I know because it has happened to me. But remember that normally you and your friends fight and things like that because that is what friendship is mainly about, the good times and the bad. Just tell someone else about it and see what they may think. After it has all finished maybe talk to your friends and see if anything was wrong with them like parents getting divorced or something. But you should remember, live life normal; try not to get into any fights with your friends and trust them with all your heart.

Hope this helps!!

 

[Surfer_girl]

Wow. your in quite a pickle there. O.O'' My friend is having mood swings too.

One day: happy, Next hour: angry, next minute: sad.

then she says our bestie has made her upset and angry for all these years even though we been through thick and thin since kindergarten and babies!!! then we got together again.

Just try to make her feel special and make a deal with the friends who are complaining. then your friends will be friends again!! if that doesnt work, then I got nothing.

~SG~