Family

[♥Aurora♥]

Hi, Im Kat. Anyway.

My parents fight constantly, my brother (whos three) was goofing off and my dad hit his hand so hard he could have broken a bone today!

And even more my brother swears because my parents do, and my dad blames it ALL on my mom who barley cusses, then he cusses after his hit my brother! He says 'And YOU do it all!' well to be true all he does is sit on his butt all day!

And even more my mom just called me and my brother a screw up!

I hate it!

 

[tamatalker101]

Not good, Try talking to a school counsler or a teacher and tell them how it makes you feel. Just remeber you are NOT anything like a screw up you are just you.

 

[Evumeimei]

Whatever bad your parents say about you or your brother, remember that it's NOT true! you are NOT a screw-up! Try talking about your parents to a reliable adult, like a school counselor. Sorry, but that's all the advice I can give you.

 

[TigerLily013]

As well as the previous advice given, you should tell your parents how much it hurts you and your brother when you are called names like that, and how their yelling and swearing is really hurting the both of you. Add that they are both adults and they shouldn't be acting like misbehaving children.

Make sure they know they are the parents and they are setting an example for you and your little brother. Yelling and swearing and name calling towards you guys will cause long term problems in the future and instead of blaming mom or dad, you (the parents as you speak with them) should stop the blame game and try working on their own weaknesses as well as figuring out how one is contributing to the toxicity of the situations unfolding.

Mention all of this to your parents in a mature and calm manner with both of them in the room listening to you attentively, and hopefully they will realize the error of their ways and grow up a bit on their end.

 

[tamaw/pants]

As well as the previous advice given, you should tell your parents how much it hurts you and your brother when you are called names like that, and how their yelling and swearing is really hurting the both of you. Add that they are both adults and they shouldn't be acting like misbehaving children.
Make sure they know they are the parents and they are setting an example for you and your little brother. Yelling and swearing and name calling towards you guys will cause long term problems in the future and instead of blaming mom or dad, you (the parents as you speak with them) should stop the blame game and try working on their own weaknesses as well as figuring out how one is contributing to the toxicity of the situations unfolding.

Mention all of this to your parents in a mature and calm manner with both of them in the room listening to you attentively, and hopefully they will realize the error of their ways and grow up a bit on their end.

I totaly agree.

Tell them how it hurts you- they may not even realize it because it sounds like it happens on a regular basis.

 

[tamagotchiloverforver]

Mabye you should call kids help phone they can help you more than I can Because nobody should be treated that way

Because if your father hit your brother he broke the law for child Abuse you can also check out websites just google it

About your parents fighting, It has nothing to do with you it's there problem not yours.

And If your Father Treats your Family like that you guys aren't the screw ups, He is.

I'm Sorry about whats happing to you~

~fobloverforever~

 

[Doglover10]

im so sorry u are no screw up talk to somone to help