Cool, I'm a Jew too. I didn't have any music at mine, I think it was a religious thing I don't know about, I'm unorthodox. What kind of songs are you looking for, formal ones or just ones you like ?
The DJ asked me for party songs. Not the stuff we all already know, like Fire Burning on the dance floor. She already has all of those. Newer ones, or ones we have never heard.
Actually it's my twin's Bar mitzah too, so I'm already 13. My parents wanted us to have a double party.