Crush Problem

~Sunlight~ · Apr 18, 2009

There's a guy in my class who I really like. I used to like him a few years ago. From grade 1-3. We were really good friends, and then he found out I liked him. Now, three years later, I like him, again. But I know he doesn't like me. I think he still likes this girl, I'm gonna call her "Kait", I know he used to, he told me. But Kait is the most stuck up, idiotic brat in the world! She's pretty though, I guess that's why he liked her. He sometimes agrees with my friends and I about how she's a crybaby, but it burns a hole in my heart when she's just talking to him. One time, her friend was like, "go talk to him! Go on!" And I was pretending not to notice, but I felt so angry. Then her friend went up to a different guy and said what Kait was going to say to him. I felt so much better! My friends don't know, but some of them say I do.

I don't know, I feel like I might love him, and that scares me, cause I'm too young! Please help!

Midna · Apr 19, 2009

I don't think TamaTalk is a place to post your love problems..

TigerLily013 · Apr 19, 2009

I don't think TamaTalk is a place to post your love problems..

Matter of opinion, but some people feel their issues like this are appropriate for SnTT.

Best if you don't like these topics to not respond to them and ignore them

Saves doing some unproductive posts.

Roxygirl26 · Apr 19, 2009

You should just go for it!

I did, and it turned out good for me!

DemonSlayer5050 · Apr 19, 2009

I'm going through the same thing my friend. The absoloute same thing. Okay, here's my way of solving it. Try to talk to him more first. Like get to know him, be better friends so when you ask him out you know since you're friends he probably won't make fun of you or anything. If he says no to you, act like it's not a big deal, there are other fish in the sea. If you do make a scene over it he'll just think you're immature. I hope that helps.

~Sunlight~ · Apr 19, 2009

Thanks, guys! I'll try that. I don't have any trouble talking to him.

Maybe I'll see if he'll take me to the dance at the end of the year. Maybe if he did, I'd actually enjoy being there...in a dress. Okay, it's impossible for me to be happy in a dress, but it would be better if he was my date.