Boy Trouble - Help D:

[tenniswinner]

At my new school, guys are starting to well, take interest in me. But every time a guy "checks me out", I get so nervous! I get beat read, I sweat really bad, and I feel like I'm going to cry! I have no idea why, I mean I've always wanted guys to actually NOTICE me.

And no, I'm not one of those people who purposely gets attention. The guys just come up to me and start talking. But I have no idea what to say, and I act like a total doof.

And I WANT to flirt back, but I can't - I just have no idea how!

Any help here? How can I be more comfortable around guys? Any tips on how to flirt? =P

 

[Squidward is Cool]

It's happening to me too, only I have no interest.

All I can suggest to you now is to say "Hi" if they're "checking you out."

They'll feel empowered.

 

[bratztroxg]

Yay! Someone in the same position as me!!! ^.^ It's the same with me, but I'm growing more confident. Because if you think about it, they do actually like you and go with the saying "Who Dares, Wins" and just say something, be yourself!

 

[TDF]

I'm a guy, and I get nervous when a girl looks at me. I feel the same way. Nervous. Is that strange?

 

[bratztroxg]

I'm a guy, and I get nervous when a girl looks at me. I feel the same way. Nervous. Is that strange?

Really?? Guys feel the same embarrassment and self-concsiousness as we girls do?! Thanks for saying that, it's kind of a comfort. :furawatchi:

 

[tenniswinner]

Thanks for the info. :furawatchi:

But I feel sick to my stomach when I'm around a guy a like. Even when I'm away from him and I'm just thinking of him, I feel like I'm going to puke!

 

[hypergotchi]

I feel sort of unsteady when I'm near the girl I like.

I can talk to her about normal stuff.

But I'm too chicken to ask her out.

I'm sort of like the opposite of you.

 

[TDF]

Really?? Guys feel the same embarrassment and self-concsiousness as we girls do?! Thanks for saying that, it's kind of a comfort. :furawatchi:

Who says we can't be embarrased?

 

[Squidward is Cool]

Thanks for the info.
But I feel sick to my stomach when I'm around a guy a like. Even when I'm away from him and I'm just thinking of him, I feel like I'm going to puke!

Don't worry. It's not as bad as me.

Today, I got in the same group as the guy I like in Social Studies, and I almost slipped. ON MY OWN SWEAT!

It's hard for me to be daring. I'm like "Just do it. Just DO IT." in my head.

 

[Mileyroxursox2342]

I'm a guy, and I get nervous when a girl looks at me. I feel the same way. Nervous. Is that strange?

Hey thnx for sharing that! Now I know how guys feel. I'm always awkward around guys too. I think I might actually like 2 guys at the same time this year. What do you do when something like THAT happens?

 

[TDF]

Hey thnx for sharing that! Now I know how guys feel. I'm always awkward around guys too. I think I might actually like 2 guys at the same time this year. What do you do when something like THAT happens?

See which one you like better? I don't know. I'm not good with this girl stuff.

Your welcome for sharing what I did.

 

[tenniswinner]

Guys can be just as nervous as girls, I learned today.

My bf wanted me to call him, and I have never called a guy on the phone before. It took me a couple hours to muster up enough strength to just dial the numbers. xD

He wasn't there though, so I felt kinda stupid for worrying.

Then he called me later, and my heart pounded so fast. It was that feeling like I was gonna puke again. I looked it up, and the word to describe it is "twitterpated". xD

But when we were talking about how we react to eachother, I told him I get so nervous and how I feel like I'm going to puke. He said he feels the same way every time he sees me!

What a coinkydink.

 

[x.Saku]

Guys can be just as nervous as girls, I learned today.
My bf wanted me to call him, and I have never called a guy on the phone before. It took me a couple hours to muster up enough strength to just dial the numbers. xD

He wasn't there though, so I felt kinda stupid for worrying.

Then he called me later, and my heart pounded so fast. It was that feeling like I was gonna puke again. I looked it up, and the word to describe it is "twitterpated". xD

But when we were talking about how we react to eachother, I told him I get so nervous and how I feel like I'm going to puke. He said he feels the same way every time he sees me!

What a coinkydink.

That's how I was when I first called my boyfriend!!

Lol, he texted me and told me he was going to call me, and then I heard my ringtone and my heart started pounding super hard on my chest!! ^O^ We both were nervous! We were like, "Uhh..soooo..." xDD but now we're more comfortable and we call eachother every day ^-^

 

As for the flirting tip. Pretend that they're your guy friends and talk to them normally!

 

[TDF]

Guys can be just as nervous as girls, I learned today.
My bf wanted me to call him, and I have never called a guy on the phone before. It took me a couple hours to muster up enough strength to just dial the numbers. xD

He wasn't there though, so I felt kinda stupid for worrying.

Then he called me later, and my heart pounded so fast. It was that feeling like I was gonna puke again. I looked it up, and the word to describe it is "twitterpated". xD

But when we were talking about how we react to eachother, I told him I get so nervous and how I feel like I'm going to puke. He said he feels the same way every time he sees me!

What a coinkydink.

That's great! You feel the same way! It's good you got that in the open.

 

[hypergotchi]

Hey thnx for sharing that! Now I know how guys feel. I'm always awkward around guys too. I think I might actually like 2 guys at the same time this year. What do you do when something like THAT happens?

OK, I am the boy version of like three people on this website!

Last year I liked two girls, I was good friends with both.

Over the summer I sort of settled on one, but still a little nervous around the other.

And I NEVER see the girl I like other than passing in the hallway!

Last year we had like three classes together.

Grr.

 

[JonasBrothersRule619]

i have the same exact prob

 

[mimitchis_rock13579]

Call me weird but in my opinion you shouldn't really get tips on flirting, because that should be sincere stuff to guys you really do like. But I found something on flirting from Myjellybean.com:

https://www.myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm