Ok, you should be fine with the 5 items I had mentioned, the microphone is an art point, are you still on a Lovlitchi? It isn´t one of her items. If you are sending an item from the app, you still need to buy it from the shop. I usually raise a character as follows.... after the baby stage, potty training! depending on how you catch it on the potty as a baby, the first training is within the first 2 hours, the icon appears go to the bathroom icon, select the first one, once it finishes, praise it. ( the first clover icon). this happens every two hours after the first miss or catch. depending the character you need to do this 2-3 times. After that I change the clock to get the other cleaning and hygiene skills with putting the clock to 17;59, at 18:00, clean and praise, lower left icon third choice, the praise, then set it to 18:59, at 19:00 bath ( lower left icon second choice) and praise, usually twice does it. After that follow the character charts for the one you want to grow, Fuzzy n chic has them and do does tama zone. When the character becomes an adult, I immediately use its three favorite items for the first three clover pieces, the fourth is automatic after 48 hours. After I get the three clover items I take the Tama to school, repeatedly, until all the skills are met. That´s the way I get the Tamatomo on the 4U.